I was 13 and my girlfriend and I were both really nervous and shy about stuff like that, but when we were on lunch in school we were walking across the rugby field holding hands and she looked at me then leaned in and kissed me... ...so nervous I sort of blacked out for 2 seconds... ...After then I felt far more confident with that sort of stuff, although I've been crap with girls since we ended a year later *16 now and feels better, looking at other flood's comments*