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Edited by Jive Turkey: 9/17/2013 3:33:55 AM
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Friend wants to get with my ex girlfriend?

Dunno what to do brahs. Broke up with this girl about a year back, but it ended with a lot of unresolved stuff. Still cared about her a ton but we didn't talk for months even though she tried to contact me a few times. I pretty much got over it, but recently she started messaging my friend and he's gonna try(most likely succeed) to -blam!- her. It would be selfish of me to tell him not to because she's not even mine right?? Even though I thought I was over her I feel mad & jealous as fu­ck, which is so selfish of me,right? She had a boyfriend or two since then and so have I, but I feel kinda betrayed. How do I get over this feeling?
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  • Was the bumped needed?
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  • Let him go for it. Whats the worst that can happen?
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  • You're not together anymore. Unless your friend is a bad guy, it's not right to tell him he can't date her. It's not all about you. Sometimes you just have to grow up and take it like an adult.
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  • Its in the guy code man, you don't touch friends ex's they off limits. He's not much of a friend in my opinion Bros before hoes
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    [quote]She had a boyfriend or two since then and so have I, but I feel kinda betrayed. How do I get over this feeling?[/quote] Maybe she felt betrayed because you never told her that you were gay.
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    • Who bumped this.
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      • Thats rough man.. you best of telling your friend you still like her if that is the case. Most likely it just your subconscious speaking happens to me sometimes.
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      • If he's just trying to -blam!- her without entering into a relationship, then you're likely just feeling protective of her.
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      • Just wait until she starts talking about your dick size and how unsatisfying you are in bed. He will then laugh at you behind your back. Tell him not to.
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      • I was in the same position except I was the friend Lel
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      • By thinking of the reasons why it didn't work out
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        Razgriz
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        lol drama is a brewing.
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      • This exact same thing happened to me. After I figured out they were dating, I just stopped talking to them.
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      • Edited by Cobravert: 9/17/2013 3:58:12 AM
        Unresolved issues.... If you didn't talk to her for months, sounds like things resolved themselves. Sorry to say, but she's free to make her own choice and so is your friend. You will just have to be a good friend and be happy for them if it works out. [quote]She had a boyfriend or two since then and so have I,[/quote] Um, ok. Sounds like everything worked out then, I guess. Time heals all wounds. One of the dumbest sayings ever, but it does hold some truth. It should say; Time makes you eventually forget certain parts of the events that happened so they become a bitter resentment or a warm memory. This all depends on how you handle things.
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      • Your homies will inevitably bang your ex chicks man... That's a fact of life.
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      • I'm not experienced.
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      • If she is nuts give him fair warning otherwise let then go or
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      • Jive My brother We've all been through tough times. We share your pain :/
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      • Stick it in their poopers
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      • I have the same feelings a lot. It happens. Going through it right now actually. You'll realize it's not that big of a deal later on.
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      • not a bloodily true friend then dude, get friends who are above all, 'loyal'.
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      • She's your ex, things didn't work. It's time to move on with your life and put bros before hoes.
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      • Jive turkey is right... shiiiit.......
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      • You must call her or see her in person and settle everything, brb need to go take my own advice.
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