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5/21/2013 12:11:52 AM
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you're honestly an idiot in this day and age to wait until marriage to have sex.
a couples physical relationship is a HUGE part of their overall relationship. if you wait until you get married and then you're not compatible in bed, your marriage will not last.
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Thank you Jerry Springer
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If your marriage is based of whether you are compatible in bed or not you are doing it wrong. No pun intended
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That was a stupid post if I've ever read one. If you base your marriage off of sex then it well end up in divorce.
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that's not what i said at all physical compatibility is an important part to a relationship. you're supposed to marry someone who you're compatible with. if the physical aspect of a relationship / marriage isn't satisfying then that could lead to problems. the relationship isn't based off sex. you just don't seem to understand how intimacy works in a relationship. you'll grow up one day
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I don't think it's necessary to try someone out before you know you're physically compatible. Just use your head. I mean I never heard of a guy not being able to sleep with a girl. If two people truly love each other that would just be another little thing to overcome right? People have strange ideas about sex these days. It's sometimes really important and other times unimportant.
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Like it or not, sex is [i]kind of a big deal.[/i] Poor sexual performance [i]will[/i] have a negative impact on a relationship. Having sex is the closest you can get to someone; better get good at it.
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Maybe but it's such a brief moment to make so important in a relationship. Let me ask you this, what is your responsibility in a marriage?
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Such a brief moment? The -blam!- you talking about? Getting intimate may be short comparatively, but you'd better hope that you aren't just doing it to get it over with. My responsibility in a marriage is making the other person happy.
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You can't make a person happy. You can try but if that person depends on you for happiness then good luck. I believe it is raising children in a loving, responsible, and encouraging environment. Not sure what sensual compatibility has to do with all that. :/ Sure sex is important in a marriage but it comes after duties and responsibilities for sure.
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Edited by ABotelho: 10/25/2013 8:41:13 PMWhat do you think sex is for? Only for fun, even after marriage? Christ.
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Lol well you said it yourself! It's for fun! Haha agreed. Lets make fun a huge part of a relationship and see what happens! XD
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I don't even... Are you for real?
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What, I'm just following your reasoning, it's stupid right?
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>Implying one couldn't improve their sex life
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you can but why wait until you're stuck with someone? work everything out BEFORE you're married this isn't tough
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How many times would you say it would take before someone "got good"? And once you're married you would have a lot of time to learn.
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idk it depends on the people involved. some guys and girls are clueless in bed as to what their partner wants. it takes (imo) months to get to know your partner intimately: what they like, dislike. everyone's different for example: let's say you love getting a blowjob because they're fcking awesome. you wait and don't do anything intimate until marriage. your wife won't do oral. you're stuck with her. that's just a small example but you see what i'm getting at?
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Well, if you're saving yourself for marriage, how would you know if a blow job feels good? Just sayin'.
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Those are questions that could be brought up before hand though if she was being disobedient she would get a spanking.
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i'm getting trolled gg
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You saying you wouldn't spank your significant other?
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Why is "this day and age" any different from the last 2000 years of abstinence? Were they wrong in their relationships too?
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in the past it was considering socially unacceptable to fornicate before marriage. people still did it, but it was highly frowned upon. today, it's not frowned upon because we realize how important sex is to a relationship. if you're not good with one another, marriage isn't going to make you all of a sudden sexually compatible. essentially, to deny your relationship something that is necessary to function properly is stupid.
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Edited by Lord Keksworth: 9/21/2013 3:37:16 AMIt isn't really an essential part of a relationship. It's a biological necessity, though.
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If someone truly loved me, and I loved them back, I doubt Sex would mean as much to us. While it would be important, I don't need to use it as a deciding factor for who I love.
