So much rationalizations in this thread it's disgusting.
Reevaluate what it means to 'cheat'.
Looking at a woman with lust or flirting is mentally cheating on her.
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Cheat is defined by your partner. If he/she considers "_____" cheating? Then it is. Some partners feel betrayed or cheated on if their partner reads or looks at erotica, or faps, or fantasizes. If that's their definition, then you either need to comply with it, talk to them about the matter, or hide it from them.
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yet another great post. You're a guru of love. I agree, but even then.... If your partner doesn't think sex with another person is cheating is it still cheating? I think so. But still, everything is based on opinion. Personal morals and whatnot.