If you don’t have time to teach one person simple raid mechanics, just say so, no need to kick like a hypocrite. Just say « look, I’m in a hurry to get this raid done, we don’t have time to teach » and then you kick, it’s just more polite and civilized. If your parents never taught you, it’s one way to make this world a better place.
If you want context, I’m in an lfg group, some guy lags out, we’re 5. At that moment a friend asks me if he can join, I ask the group, they say ok. When he joins(totems) they start the encounter and I see this guy’s never done it before. I try to explain on the fly, but it doesn’t work, we wipe ONCE. Kick. Just say “sorry we don’t have time, we’re in a hurry”, I’ll back out no problem. If I don’t leave, kick me, I’m an idiot. But please, we aren’t barbarians, let us me civilized.
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What's funny is I get the feeling like it was a no-mic group anyway. Whatever about philosophy and feelings and "how you were raised" ... they will kick because boom, you are kicked, and they will never see you again, even if they do - what will happen? You'll cry? Nah just move on, raid with people who at LEAST will talk to you and show you common decency. There are a lot of them out there, more of them than you think - you just gotta find em.