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I'm someone that's picked up many unofficial clan members over the years. We all play together across different games pretty exclusively. Thought about making it an official clan a few times, but... Too much work, too much focus on recruitment, rather just let it be a group of friends that gets added to when we run into more people of like mind. That being said, I too, have lost someone recently. And I didn't find out until nearly a month later. My friend Kurru, who I won't share her real name here, passed away on the 7th of February. She had hurt her leg, which brought her into the hospital. Several weeks later and she gets released to her home, looking forward to it. However, she would go on to pass away in her sleep. That fact gives me some comfort in it. But she passed due to a blood clot. Which I'm sure was caused by the leg injury, and probably went hidden, undiagnosed. She's not the first friend I've lost, but she is a first for me in our group of friends. We played many games together, literally all the time. And when we weren't gaming, we were chatting on Telegram or in an Xbox Party. She was one of my very few I'd consider a best friend, and in that? She was the first best friend I'd ever lost. So I did what I did, in Minecraft I moved her house and in place of it, created a monument for her. In Warframe I've been completing the Dojo, things left unfinished. In Sea of Thieves I've been flying her favorite flag, ect. ect. Do what you need to in order to mourn. What helps me is knowing she's in a place better then this world. I'm not exactly religious per-say, but I like to hold the belief that there is something better then this world afterwards. The simple thought helps. Just remember he's always in your heart, in your memories. Celebrate the good that came. Mourn in your own time, in your own ways, when you need to. But also remember the good times, the fun times, never forget the impact they've made on your life in the time they were a part of it. There are many ways to deal with loss, it's not easy, especially the closer the person was to you. But, [i]it will get better.[/i] Just keep that in mind, my friend. Remember the good, mourn when you need to, keep their memory alive in your heart.
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  • Well said...and all the respect to you,for honoring her like that. Dont know her or you.. but reading this made me realize more, that some little things are important to remember. Not really the words I was thinking to say, but you hit me in the feels

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