In a spouse, would you rather him/her have the same interests as you, but a different train of thought from you. Or would you rather them have the same train of thought, but different interests. Please elaborate as to why.
For me, I would want them to have the same train of thought as me. the difference of interests would keep things interesting. The thing I have found about people who have the same train interests but a different train of thought means that we have very bad and horrible fights that made it hard to continue in a relationship. especially on the serious issues that we disagreed on.
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2 RepliesAt first I was thinking similar interests, but different train of thought can lead to lots of arguments, and I'm not about that life.