In a spouse, would you rather him/her have the same interests as you, but a different train of thought from you. Or would you rather them have the same train of thought, but different interests. Please elaborate as to why.
For me, I would want them to have the same train of thought as me. the difference of interests would keep things interesting. The thing I have found about people who have the same train interests but a different train of thought means that we have very bad and horrible fights that made it hard to continue in a relationship. especially on the serious issues that we disagreed on.
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If I can get a girl who wants to shove pickles in her mouth then she’s the one for me
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Noticing a lot of relationship based posts around off topic recently. Anyways have to go with train of thought. Hard to be together if you both don't understand each other.
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Oh definitely same train of thought! I like people that actually get my jokes/references.
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Idk I’ve never really discussed anything like this with a girl, but I do know that my friends have at least one similar interest, but we think differently, so imma go with that one
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2 RepliesAt first I was thinking similar interests, but different train of thought can lead to lots of arguments, and I'm not about that life.