Sooo earlier I was in LFG looking for a group to get at least 7 wins in trials. I created a party and invited people, someone joined so I proceeded to greet them just so they would leave the party immediately after I spoke and it happened several times. Then I would join chats and simply say hi and BOOM I was getting kicked out.
My reasoning was that maybe they got a friend chat invite or people already had a 3rd before I joined. The answer was simple after I stayed in orbit wondering what the hell was wrong, these monkey brains knocked me strait out because they heard I am a woman!!! Like seriously what makes them think I cant hold my ground? Does the mic make me sound like a kid? Were their experiences with female gamers that bad I dont deserve a chance?
Time was against me so I changed tactics, bitch mode activated so in the description I wrote something among the lines of bad ass kick out girl looking for a group.....I wanted to kill the screen when I was getting lots of invites and messages it was embarrassing, thank goodness I got 2 normal people to play with.
I guess this must be why girls like to stay quiet, being afraid of being mocked or kick out of fireteams. I had to purposely put that I am female so at least people knew what to expect when they talk to me and hopefully stay.
Edit 1: im 21, my voice is not squeaky but I guess mic must not helping me portray that since my voice is not deep at all.
Its so dumb, how can I fix this issue?
Edit 2: A few things clear. This account belongs to my fiancé, destiny is my first person shooting game so im still not top dog. Judge me only on the hunter since that is the only character I play.
I play lots of pvp on the vita because im a masochist so I don't care about my K/D.
I have a good clan that has good people but they were offline or busy when I had time to play. I have been ignoring destiny since Disgaea 5 came out so yeah im rusty.
I can hold my own waaay better than before, got some wrecking ball recently so I feel good about that. Thanks for all the very kind replies, I would add most of you but my fiancé will delete so many random people he doesnt know since we like our clan lol.
Edit 3: Hellooo from the other siiiiide.
[b]To the salty people that have posted here I could care more about two poops than your negativity.[/b]
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