JavaScript is required to use Bungie.net

#Advice

Edited by FoMan123: 8/14/2015 5:31:13 AM
8

I Need Serious Help. [PLEASE COMMENT]

OK. It is 1:05 as I am posting this. I cannot sleep at all. Period. I feel a lot of stress and anxiety building up inside me. I've loved this girl since January, and when I texted her, I found out she broke up with her boyfriend. But there was a catch. She was taken advantage of, then the boyfriend cheated. Out of anger, she followed his footsteps and took it even further. I still legitimately have feelings for her. I do not want her for sexual fulfillment. But as of now, she is not looking at anyone for a relationship because of the incident. I texted her until midnight, starting from about 10:15, and there is something inside me telling she lost a bit of interest. Yeah, she needs plenty of time to recover, and I fully recognize this. But I'm just afraid when she's over it, she will lose feelings altogether. She doesn't want to risk our friendship. Once again, I do not look at women for dirty desires. But I have been breathing heavily for the past hour, thinking about whether I will live in darkness for yet another year. Older girls have tried taking advantage of me in the past, and it leaves me paranoid. The only cure I see is the kiss of a girl I genuinely care about, and she feels like the only one for me. Not many girls at my high school are sensible enough to recognize that people like me are the type of people they should have for themselves. I am respectful, intelligent, athletic, and pretty damn good-looking. But what do I do? I feel like slitting my wrists to help me sleep, but that will not work out well with the people close to me. I haven't done self-harm or attempted suicide in several months. I feel like a cornered rat with no way out. The only way for me to escape my problems is through her, or pain and minor bloodshed. What do I do? Someone please help me.

Posting in language:

 

Play nice. Take a minute to review our Code of Conduct before submitting your post. Cancel Edit Create Fireteam Post

  • Why are you posting this in the forums of a videogame?

    Posting in language:

     

    Play nice. Take a minute to review our Code of Conduct before submitting your post. Cancel Edit Create Fireteam Post

    1 Reply
    • Life is precious, and suicide is a serious issue to be handled by licensed professionals. Bungie employees and forum moderators are not trained to handle those in a suicidal crisis; please call the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: 1-800-273-TALK (8255).

      Posting in language:

       

      Play nice. Take a minute to review our Code of Conduct before submitting your post. Cancel Edit Create Fireteam Post

      2 Replies
      • Edited by Julianos: 8/14/2015 5:45:52 AM
        My god! What are you, 12? Get the -blam!- over it. You never had a relationship and she's not interested. Move on And don't self harm or kill yourself. It's a stupid idea

        Posting in language:

         

        Play nice. Take a minute to review our Code of Conduct before submitting your post. Cancel Edit Create Fireteam Post

        6 Replies
        • Right, this may sound belittling and condersending but here goes.. you have the affliction of being a teenager, your yearning and need for affection is a natural stage of growing up....but be careful once you do manage to hook this lady (for which I have every confidence) it turns into more of a mind feck. Don't over stress, go on holiday (meet other girls) if you can master this turmoil and come out unscathed the rewards will be huge...p.s. Sex is great

          Posting in language:

           

          Play nice. Take a minute to review our Code of Conduct before submitting your post. Cancel Edit Create Fireteam Post

          3 Replies
          • You're going to have to let her do her. If you want to have the best chance at rekindling anything between you two, the best you can do is be there for her no matter what. Put aside the fact that you're head over heels for this girl, and be there as whatever she needs you to be. If she doesn't end up liking you back, that's the way it is. Would you rather be her friend or lose her altogether? I know what I'd choose.

            Posting in language:

             

            Play nice. Take a minute to review our Code of Conduct before submitting your post. Cancel Edit Create Fireteam Post

            4 Replies
            • Stick with her and support her and give her all the time she needs to recover. She's going to know you care about her and you're there for her. Please don't hurt yourself, that won't solve anything.

              Posting in language:

               

              Play nice. Take a minute to review our Code of Conduct before submitting your post. Cancel Edit Create Fireteam Post

              3 Replies
              • >grab her wrists >stare her in the eyes >bring her in closer >then....... [spoiler]-blam!- HER RIGHT IN THE PUSSY[/spoiler]

                Posting in language:

                 

                Play nice. Take a minute to review our Code of Conduct before submitting your post. Cancel Edit Create Fireteam Post

              • >get tank >drive to her house >pick her up in the tank Also to solve your sleep issue >obtain frying pan >introduce your frying pan to your face >repeat until you are unconscious

                Posting in language:

                 

                Play nice. Take a minute to review our Code of Conduct before submitting your post. Cancel Edit Create Fireteam Post

                4 Replies
                You are not allowed to view this content.
                ;
                preload icon
                preload icon
                preload icon