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4/10/2015 1:08:29 AM
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Being a fairly serious Christian, I'm not in the whole idea that porn is okay. However I wouldnt ever go towards overtly telling anyone to stop doing porn unless we've been buds and I want to see them live morally. I can't prove that porn is bad for all relationships, and I can't prove its always addictive, but those are my thoughts on it. I have been using porn myself, but I've been trying to stop for the past two years. Most I have gone is about a week and a half pure. If anyone wants to talk to me about it I'm open.
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  • The people ITT who say "Porn isn't cheating" or "porn is part of a healthy relationship" is really disturbing me. What has our generation come to? Since you are a christian, I know the Bible says that "If a man looks upon a woman lustfuly he has already committed the sin." What are your thoughts? [spoiler]I used to struggle with porn addiction when I was with this one girl, and I hated myself for it. I did some research online and it said that porn addiction literally changes the shape of your brain to make it a part of your daily routine. Things such as taking deep breaths and going out with friends are two of many simple tricks to overcome porn addiction. Some people who are trying to overcome it sometimes resort to installing an app blocker on their Computer or Phone and forcefully forgetting the password. It's been about a year now and I don't even want to watch porn and I'm dating and in love with a beautiful girl who Is really encouraging and sweet. She is another reason I don't watch it and I hope you overcome your addiction, brother.[/spoiler]

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  • Thanks for the encouragement :) I agree that simply because the bible states it is bad should be enough reason to avoid it. But of course the rest of the culture embraces sex and lives on it. I...honestly can't explain or say why people would say porn is okay in relationships. And I don't know how people even do it together. If there are fantasies you want to have, unless its a verrrry unrealistic fantasy (have been into those) I'm sure you could just ask your partner about it. [spoiler]Wanna wear cat ears and tail while doing it? Anal? Foot jobs? Etcetera.[/spoiler] And if the partner does not consent than I think its the other ones job to be okay with that. Holding onto that fetish while a partner does not consent to it IRL is basically the same as saying they can't give you what you need, thus making them feel bad. Porn in general is lusting at other woman, whether fake or real. If girls aren't okay with their guys 'eyeing up' girls in public, they shouldn't be okay with them using porn. Its the same thing, but while wanking.

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