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2/23/2014 3:25:36 PM
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Let's talk relationships, Flood

Tell us what you think about relationships / love in general. Are you in a relationship? If so, what kind of a relationship is it (the dynamics, how you act when you're together etc.)? Are you unhappy because you aren't in one? Are you swearing off them because of bad experiences? What kind of things do you need from a partner (amounts of personal space or expressions of affection etc.)? I've learned the value of solitude and actively seek it out as much as possible, as when i'm with people i feel forced to articulate myself verbally; a form of expression I am neither fond of nor particularly good at. If i ever got into a relationship i'd need [b] [i]A LOT[/i][/b] of space and [b][i]A LOT[/i][/b] of understanding from the other person that I'm extremely introverted and am not comfortable with giving people lots of verbal attention. Whilst that may be possible without harming the relationship, i see how people work and in my opinion most of them wouldn't be able to cope with that lack of verbal communication and attention. Most people i meet are goddamn limpets with mouths like fog horns, even the ones who claim to need lots of space, so i just don't see how a relationship would work. I don't think i could give someone else what they think they need but i don't consider that a bad thing for me. I do not feel the need for someone else's love; as though i am not a whole person and therefore need somebody else as a kind of crutch in order to become one. If someone wants to get into a relationship with me then i'll give it my all, but i'm not actively looking for one because, sexual urges aside, i don't feel i need one.

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  • I'm with a woman I love very much, never really thought things would go the way they did before I met her. Now we're waiting to start moving into our own apartment in a couple weeks (will post pics). I was super depressed before I met her, now I'm like a little kid on Christmas every time I see her. Much love. So good.

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