Unresolved issues.... If you didn't talk to her for months, sounds like things resolved themselves. Sorry to say, but she's free to make her own choice and so is your friend. You will just have to be a good friend and be happy for them if it works out. [quote]She had a boyfriend or two since then and so have I,[/quote] Um, ok. Sounds like everything worked out then, I guess. Time heals all wounds. One of the dumbest sayings ever, but it does hold some truth. It should say; Time makes you eventually forget certain parts of the events that happened so they become a bitter resentment or a warm memory. This all depends on how you handle things.