Okay, Arcam 043 to help with relationships... after all, I'm a girl, and I know how I like to be approached. First, if you haven't seen her for a LONG time, but you wanna get together again- start out small. Ask her what she has been doing over the time, did she have fun, are you coming back soon, etc. Just start out with the basic "welcome" stuff. Second, interact a bit more. Ask if yous wanna go out to the movies or a skate park with a whole big group of mates. If you do that, my word of advice is that you spend time with her, but not too much. It'll annoy her. Third, if she talks to you alot, says hello when you walk by first, and calls you for things, that means she's gotten close. This is the time to ask. But explain your feelings first. Don't just scream out "can you go out with me?". No. Girls like explanations before the question; it keeps their ears open. Oh, and make sure that you guys are alone somewhere, or somewhere peaceful, like the beach or someting. If she says YES, your first mission is complete. Now, your second mission you ask? 'Find out the things she likes'. Maybe she likes horseriding, jet skiing, snowboarding... (wait, I like those sports. hehe.) But if she does like them, or wants to try them, take her out. Even if you don't like it and she does, remember; you're doing something for her, out of the goodness of your heart. If she understands this, she'd wanna get closer because she trusts you. Okay, if she says NO, she has to explain herself. Now, if she has a boyfriend, or just isn't ready for a relationship, accept that, smile, and be happy that you at least have a friendship. Um, that's all I can help with right now. If your mission is completed, message me if you need more help. I'll be happy to. I always help out people with relationships. If anyone else needs help, just message me ALL the details... and right vocabulary. (I don't read "mumble") Good luck. You asked for help. I gave. Arcam 043