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7/7/2015 6:11:25 AM
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Friendship
It's nice to have a lot of friends or that one friend you get really excited that gets on. I had a friend like that. We talked for hours everyday, texted, played and did a lot together. However, i lost that friend. I messed up our friendship and now she does not want to be my friend anymore. I have tried my hardest to become friends again and I regret it everyday. I try to take my mind off of it by playing trials and helping others to the lighthouse, playing raids or strikes. Trying my hardest to do well even though I will mute my mic completely since i remember the times we had. It isn't the same without her. I post this for everyone to know to never lose your friends or make them not want to talk to you at all. To the point where it's not like you exist. It's the worst feeling ever even though it's a friend, to me friendship especially a close one means a lot. Thank you to all that read this and have an awesome bungie day
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#Destiny
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2 RepliesI used to have friends in middle school that would be my friend on and off, but then we grew up... Just remember this: It's hard enough to live life as it is. Why make it harder to live by fighting with your friends? When you guys figure that out, you'll put aside your foolish things.
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1 ReplyShould've poked, the angst is strong.... Ever listen to the Cure?
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1 ReplyAre you talking about a chick you never actually met? Because if so, and I hate to sound like a Scooby Doo villain, but I really don't get you friggin kids today.
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Edited by Valvatorez: 7/7/2015 8:02:40 AMI had this friend before and i totally stopped talking to them. Its because he ranted at me for not joining them at trials. The first week trials was out these group of guys are not on for the whole week so instead of missing out i looked for randoms and stumbled upon this 2 great guys (shoutout to my clanmates both of you are awesome) and after getting our first lighthouses together we made a promise to run together every week. And it so happens my friends came on the 2nd week and i said "i already have a team. Sorry guys" The 3rd week was the week he blasted out at me saying that "id rather be playing with others because they can take me to the LH than stick with them" So this came to my mind.... Vog raid and im not on? Guess what, they looked for randoms. Did I complain? No i did not because i valued our friendship and getting left out is just a miniscule thing. This goes for the crota raid too btw. He was my friend and i considered him like a brother tbh and lashing out like that at me on trials is rather... disappointing. You know who you are, if you ever come across the forums and read this, you know now whats on my mind.
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Stay strong.
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What did you do so it got that messed up...
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1 ReplyDude I played with a group of guys for months like everyday. Then one day I lost my temper in pvp cause of all the lag and cheating shit in one day and many of them basically wrote me off for it. They thought I was mad at them. Not like they cared to clarify or anything. Miscommunication happens. If that's not the case it also also happens that some people just switch off friendship like its nothing. Pity on those people they will be alone. Got back in contact with a few after a while. Before you know it you might be looking back and laughing about the mix up. Never know.
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I feel you
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Hey Guardian, I just read this post (obviously) and I gotta say sorry. It's a shame that people can just turn friendship off like a switch like that. I won't ask you to elaborate on how things went down because I'm sure it won't be fun being forced to remember. Do know that, while it is a major bummer that you've lost a friend, everything happens for a reason and that life will forever move on. There's a saying that I live by that I'll pass on to you. "Life is a like a mountain range. It has it's ups and downs, but once you've reach the bottom of a valley all you can do is go up." Focus on the positives of your life, and try to spread positivity to others, and you'll find that things will be better. Chin up Guardian, things will improve.
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Dang what happened?
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Sorry to hear that, hopefully things get better between you and her. I don't know what I would do if I lost my gaming partner.
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Been there... I feel your pain :(
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I read this like you were talking really fast. On the topic of the post RIP
