Well I am a girl. A rubbish one (there are plenty of good ones out there I hasten to add). I have never done a Raid or Nightfall due to not being brave enough to get on the headset so am stuck in the perpetual twilight of level 30/31. Then I did a ROC strike the other night, mostly on my own as the others dropped out and in came Matthew from Basingstoke. We got through it and friend requests exchanged he hauled me through most of a nightfall tonight until I let him down at the end. But I will dig out the headset and we will have another go. So another little piece of Destiny has been opened up to me. Thank you Matthew for your patience and good humour and for looking after a noob girlie who just maybe might try a Raid one day. Edit: Thanks to everyone for the positive response. I am on PS4 so will summon the courage to get on the headset and try a Raid. Thanks to everyone again and good luck to anyone who, like me, wants to get into the end game stuff but just hasn't been able for whatever reason.