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3/27/2015 11:35:20 PM
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"Girl Gamers" - Why do you care?

I don't know what the big deal is about males wanting to game with females. I don't necessarily think it's going to have a life-changing impact on your gaming life. Every female is different, just like every male. (I use "female" and "male" because I'm generalizing across all age groups.) I would hope that no male would say "This is what it's like to play with males," because playing with each one of you is a different experience. The experience with "girl gamers"? Well, it's like every experience with a female in actual non-game life. Each one is unique and different and its own snowflake of a time and all that other purple prose BS. Some girls are silent and intense, and some swear like they belong in Good Will Hunting. Some have insanely high KD's and teabag every ghost they come across, and some play for fun and get frustrated when you try to make them take the game too seriously. Some talk your ear off about their life when they throw killing-shot blades in people's skulls, and others are barely aware of what they're doing as they do Titan stuff and punch the shit out of Crota. Some prefer Hunters and others prefer Warlocks, and there are even those who prefer Titans. Having a problem finding females to game with? Maybe the problem is that you care that much. Enjoy the game for the game. All the females don't cry about not being able to find each other, we just suck it up and play with all you dudes out there. How about you do the same?
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  • There are many female gamers...Most of us are fairly quiet and rarely use the mic unless we're comfortable (at least that's how it is for me). I'm fairly shy and until I am more comfortable with you I will not speak unless spoken to. That doesn't mean I'm not listening carefully to what you say. Some of the boys think that for some reason it's a good idea to make fun of us... which is a reason I don't use my mic often. I can take insults but that doesn't mean I like it... usually just mute them...After a while it gets old though. I will say its thickened my skin a bit. That is one reason female gamers might be hard to find. Of course, some are INCREDIBLY outgoing. They're just all different.

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    • Cuz boys like girls.

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    • For me, it is more curiosity. When I ask where the female gamers are, it's because I have only played with 1 female gamer since the launch of Destiny. Only reason is because she was my friends g/f who only plays when he does. From my experience in other games, most women do not play with strangers often. And if they do, it is with their Mic muted. The second a woman speaks on the mic, they are assaulted by comments like, "OMG A GIRL!!!". Some women don't want to be the center of attention. They want to be treated like another person playing the game. They are not a novelty to be marveled. They are no different than the male population of gamers. I for one welcome any woman who wants to raid. I'm not going to gush over there being someone of another gender in my party, and i'm not going to freak out that she is either better or worse than others, just because she is a woman.

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    • Boys.. care... men dont. Boys only care because they are perverts in most cases and if the girl sounds hot they are fapping to their voice while playing imagining the female guardian is actually them if the girl is using a female guardian. because most boys on this game do not even have a real life girl friend or even a girl that they just call friend. Many think that any girl playing is either bad at playing games so must be the girls hero or must be ugly too becuase they are playing a boys game. so yeah boys are immature and act like idiots when they hear a woman's voice over the headphones while playing games.

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      • I am one of the girls who plays for fun and gets mad when you yell and take it to seriously lol I also prefer titian cause I like the super :)

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      • You know in way don't take this in a wrong way but if a girl can beat me in the pvp I find that charming ;) hell my Gf hates gaming :(

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      • Cause most of these guys never got their "friend" wet lol so they are hoping for a gamer girl would help them out AHahahah

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      • Edited by Noah1911: 3/30/2015 6:21:15 AM
        I'm just here so I wont get fined.

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        • In the end all that matters is when 6 stealth major vandels pop around the corner will you run or will u fight that's all I see in a gamer is guts

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          • Ok read some not all bit correct me if I'm wrong oh and I'm from ps3 but yes I do ask" r u a boy or a girl" somtimes but not to know who I'm playing with but to know so I don't insult them. We play with a lot of squeakers (guys who have not gone through the voice depening phase of puberty) cause some of them sound like girls and then some also use girl characters but also a lot of guys do to now I use all male cause I think of me as the character but that's me so if I ask that's y

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          • In the end it don't matter male or female, old or young,good or bad,stupid or smart,adult or child, if you ever come across me in the crucible I'll pop your lil head with my thorn

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            • Beware fat chick in hot girl's clothing. They lurk in the shadows, feeding off your attention.

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              • hey girls add me i ll make may titan shoulder charge your ass

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                • I'm a hot gamer girl with c cups Add me ;) I apologize in advance..i grunt a lot

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                  • I just wish more females were into gaming in general.

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                    • Edited by BLUE--FOX82: 3/28/2015 12:28:52 AM
                      Females gamers are seen as a trophy . Plain and simple .

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                      • Why I care? I don't. I play with people I like to play with.

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                      • It's about skill for me I have met both male and female that are absolutely horrible it's just about how good you are at video games

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                      • Garbage always collects in one spot. This is that spot.

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                        • Who gives a shit...

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                          • I just play the game, yet I end up with a lot of friends who play that are girls, I kinda like it sometimes, it's nice to not have the whole "bros" feeling and just hang out with others and talk a lot of time.

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                          • A-men.

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                          • Thirsty mutha-blam!-as

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                          • Edited by oo Snicklefritz: 3/27/2015 11:41:49 PM
                            how many posts are there going to be about "female gamers?"

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