"Women already have a -blam!-, they don't need another one" My first big break up, I would call! baby your the one... lame stuff like that. It was a turn off, women want a challenge not something they know they know they can have without trying. I quit calling and paying attention to her. She started calling but I wouldn't answer, that drove her crazy. A couple weeks later she is knocking on my door, dressed up all sexy saying what a mistake she made and how much she missed me... I still didn't take her back. Bottom line, be a man about it.