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8/29/2014 7:21:21 PM
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Is Ok to be confused after kissing an ex gf?

Hey flood. About three weeks ago my fiance was mad with me for some random thing that I don't even remember, so there was a little bit of tension in our home. Then I decided to go to a party that a friend of mine was hosting in his house. To my surprise, my ex was there. Our relationship was like 5 years ago or so, and I haven't heard from her for about 3 or so years, so we started chatting and grabbing quite a few drinks. All went smooth until she said she had to go, I said "ok, nice to see you" and she asked if she could add me on fb. After I said yes she just kissed me. I'm not going to lie, I kissed her back, honestly I've always been attracted to this girl. She is pretty cute, pale skin, black hair, grayish eyes, great lips... So, the girl added me on fb and we talk almost on a daily basis, and I started to feel confused about this. I mean, my fiance could be very annoying sometimes, but she has been with me for a lot of things, and she makes me very happy, that's why I want to marry her. But this other girl, she's just so hot and we connect each other so well... What's your take on the matter flood?
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    • I'm sure someone else said it, but it's human nature to have at least some feelings and want to bang to someone from time to time. And it's also human nature to be tired and annoyed with your SO from time to time. Just think about the pros and cons of the situation. And try to stay objective with your feelings. Focus on everything not just specific parts
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    • At first I thought no. But you cheated bro. Gotta tell the fiance or your marriage will be built on lies. [spoiler]stupid cheat[/spoiler]
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    • You cheated on your fiance? Well we all know how long that relationship is going to last.
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    • Flat out, you cheated on your fiance. Adding her on fb was a bad idea. You messed up, bro. I think you need to make a choice, and take some time to take it seriously. If you are not ready to man up and be faithful to your fiance, there is no point in marriage. At the same time, you have begun the commitment, and throwing it away because of one mistake would be foolish. And honestly, you should talk to someone who knows you and your situation, not random strangers. Talking in person is always better, even if it is more awkward.
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    • Single FTW.
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    • You already -blam!-ed up. Steps if you want to be with your fiancé and marry her: a) Confess to her about what happened b) If she forgives you (by some miracle) remove your ex from Facebook and any other methods you have been in contact c) Spoil your fiancé and show her how much you are sorry Steps if you want to follow your penis and get back with your ex: a) Immediately call of the wedding and tell your wife b) Look like an asshole c) Gamble on the fact that your time with your ex may not last as long again Not sure? Kill yourself... JK just use your brain next time and not your cock lol Good Luck!!
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      • I won't say a word. Already messed up enough lives...
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        • Edited by STREET BLAZER: 8/30/2014 4:07:49 PM
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          STREET BLAZER
          STREET BLAZER

          The last greaser - old

          Oh my god... I think... [i]He-... He's GAY!!![/i] [spoiler]( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)[/spoiler]
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        • Just get a cat?
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        • Kill them both!
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        • Unless your fiancé is willing to have an open relationship, the feelings you have for the ex, (albeit mostly sexual feelings), will only get you into trouble if you have a future with your fiancé. Also, it is important to note that any new exciting person like this,, or a rekindling of an old flame, can exacerbate the problems you see in your current relationship and skew your perspective. You aren't around your ex very often at all, and your fiancé you see everyday, so the ex has that whole mysterious thing going as well as the fact that she's not around enough to annoy you or get into many arguments. And you are in a committed relationship, not dead, so these people are bound to pop up throughout life. Love is a feeling in the greatest of times and a decision in the worst of times. If you stay confused too long, may wanna lengthen the engagement.
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        • Edited by KingKrown: 8/30/2014 4:44:46 AM
          Kind of hard to give advice when I don't know much about either Lady BUT Why did you break up in the 1st place? Why are you marrying this other girl? Do you think you're just getting scared/cold feet? Compare there Good and Bad, who's really there through thick and thin? Why do you Love your fiance? Far as the Ex goes,Is it just because she's hot? Do you really think it'd go somewhere? I had this one Lady friend , She's been my fling multiple times, We connect and relate very well...but we just don't work far as relationship goes. I Think you really need to ponder and rack your brain, you are the only one who really knows these women... Edit: I scrolled down, you said you just wanted to F*ck... >_> temptation is normal, whether you give in or not is on you.
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        • >marriage >romance >true love >"the one"
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        • Plasma eagle is a pegboy
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          • I feel like your situation is my future. I can already tell....
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          • Every guy has the girl that got away and that you truly love. The girl that neither of you were mature enough at the time to appreciate. If that's her go with the ex if not forget her.
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            • Doesnt matter if shes hot or not stay with the girl you love [spoiler]its the right thing to do:D[/spoiler]
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              • Be with the one you love more.
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              • Is she hot?
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                • Like others have said. She is your ex partner for a reason, and you made the sane decision of becoming engaged to someone. Don't let it all crumble.
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                • Just remember why she is your ex and why your fiance is your fiance
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                    Gasai Yuno
                    Gasai Yuno

                    benis - old

                    Kill her.
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                    • Well she's your ex for a reason, right?
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                    • Lose the fiancé Get with your ex
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                    • Pics?
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