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Edited by Death: 4/30/2014 4:56:32 PM
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You walk in on your lover cheating on you...

What would you do? Let's say you've had 3 kids together and married for 15 years. The love of your life. The two sub-human pieces of filth are there, on your bed. How do you react? Sometimes I can understand why the husband goes on a rampage killing them both. You want to know why? Because in that moment he just realized his whole life has just been one huge lie. Everything he built his life around has collapsed. That would cause a man to murder.
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  • Mr. Shotgun accidentally went off in wifie and cheater's direction 14 times. It was an accident.
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    • Edited by Recon Number 54: 6/4/2014 4:18:17 AM
      [quote]The love of your life.[/quote] [quote]The two sub-human pieces of filth are there, on your bed.[/quote] So which is she? The love of my life or a sub-human piece of shit? Because she isn't Schrodinger's cat. If she is the love of my life, I would assume that she is for many many reasons. If she's a sub-human piece of shit, it's for one reason. Does that one bad reason overcome all of the other reasons that made her the love of my life? Then that love doesn't appear to have been based on very much or been very strong (for either of us). And besides, she's the love of my life, but she's not my property, I don't OWN her. She is a human being and guess what? Human beings can do some amazingly unpredictable things. Things that you wouldn't expect them to. Things that can hurt or even destroy you. Sometimes they realize those things were mistakes and sometimes, they aren't mistakes, but were done for a reason. [quote]Because in that moment he just realized his whole life has just been one huge lie. Everything he built his life around has collapsed. That would cause a man to murder.[/quote] That's a pretty sad man. If his whole life, his whole existence revolved around another person and what they did, what was he? Was he someone she could respect? Someone she could admire? If his life was so shallow that all it involved was another person, and that collapsed? "You can't respect someone who kisses your ass." - Ferris Bueller. He had a pretty pitiful life to begin with. Especially if he felt as if she was his property. And if a loss of such a shallow life is capable of driving someone to violence and murder? Even more pitiful and sad. Because that is a severe lack of self-control. Maybe the fact that I've been around a lot (both the block and in years) but I've long since stopped being that fricking binary, a life of "if this, then that". Life is complicated, people are complex, people do amazingly beautiful things and they do incredibly cruel things, but it takes an entire life of being a crappy person to earn the title of "sub-human filth", and having an affair is not enough to qualify. Not if you had reason to love them and truly do/did love them in the first place. My ego could and can handle such a blow without needing to resort to violence in order to cope with "what she did to ME!" Lashing out physically in such a situation is a sign of immaturity, insecurity and lack of self control and self respect.
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      • Join in is the only correct answer.
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      • I'd coat the bed in gasoline, throw a lit match onto it and then roast marshmallows on top of them whilst watching the sunset; completely ignoring the senseless screaming and foul smell of burning flesh.
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        • Leave that bitch and take the kids, some one like that would not raise my children.
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        • Furiously masturbate
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        • I'd say she has a clear choice. Does she want to get smacked with a pimp cane, or the back of my hand?
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        • Edited by Banned Carpet: 6/4/2014 10:46:09 AM
          >ITT pimp hand responses galore
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        • Joke's on them...I have Doritos Locos Tacos and Im not sharing.
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          • Introduce her to my pimp hand
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            • Calmly tell her, and him, to get out of my house. If it wasn't my house to begin with, I'd just leave.
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            • I didn't become violent but I did get a lawyer and got a divorce. Mistake or not, I couldn't trust her anymore. Some of the blame lies with me. There were other problems that neither of us addressed before her affair. The affair was just her way of making the best of a bad situation. She sought out help, tried to get me to go for therapy sessions and I wouldn't go. She turned to one of "my friends" and well, you guys are smart enough to figure out the rest. So I left and got a lawyer. It doesn't make it right for anyone else but me. It hurt like hell, still does sometimes. Funny fact: she still hasn't told her family the truth. Not about her affair or her share. I admit I am at partial fault. Sadly, I run into her family and old mutual friends on a daily basis. I wish I could tell you that as adults we know there is two sides to every story but we all know that isn't true. Be prepared for that. She is the mother of my children so I have swallowed my pride and ignore the looks, the "oh hey long time no see sorry really busy can't talk" lines. Wow, wall of text. Sorry about that. Problem is you asked a question with no easy solutions. My solution, while right for me, may not be right for you. I know there is pain involved, so don't do anything rash. Weigh all the options. I wish you the best.
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            • I would scream a question. "ARE YOU NOT THE WOMAN I HAVE LOVED AND BEEN MARRIED TO FOR 15 GOD DAMN YEARS???"
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              • Edited by HurtfulTurkey: 6/4/2014 3:32:08 AM
                I've been with the same woman for nearly 5 years, and while that doesn't hold a candle to some of the married folks here, I think it's long enough to know I wouldn't fly into a senseless rage. I love her, and I know very well that she loves me, but I also understand the temptation to cheat. She's not some piece of property, she has her own desires and acts on them. She isn't my life, and if one day I found out our relationship was over and she just hadn't gotten up the courage to tell me how she felt, I wouldn't kill a guy. Shit happens, and a defining part of a relationship is the ability to hurt the other person, and to be forgiven. Tl;dr: I question the maturity of people that claim they would do something violent.
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              • Obviously before this marriage I would sign a pre-nup saying that if the other person cheats they don't get anything. Get a divorce, leave her with the kids, focus on career now I don't have to take care of family, become rich, be bachelor, drown in pussy.
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              • Immediately walk out and take custody of the kids and kick the wife and the man out of the house. Maturest way I think?
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                • -blam!- the guy to assert my dominance.
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                  • "u w0t m8"
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                  • I'd ponder how I got mixed up into the alternate dimension where I actually get a gf. These two hooligans are merely the messengers for a larger anomaly.
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                  • have a threesome with them
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                  • So many betas
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                  • Either join in or leave them be, I'm not jelly or controlling. So long as the same respect was extended to me....
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                    • It's not gay if it's in a three way, with a honey in the middle there's some leeway
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                    • Crush the heretic female for betraying me. Then proceed to lay with my other wives.
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                    • [b] [/b] Threesome [b] [/b] [b] [/b]
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                    • Introduce them both to mr.cleaver. He's a bit of a touchy-feely guy.
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