Yeah. That's all I got. Some help would be appreciated. Some shit posts I expect. We have a daughter together. I expected it for awhile,. But it seems so unreal right now. I could use some help right now. If not, that's fine. I think I feel okay about it. But crying randomly I don't think cuts it I don't know many of you, but could use some kind of help right now... Edit: So I was intoxicated when I wrote this. After seeing all of your replies I am extremely grateful to all of you. I'm doing well, that first day was the hardest. It's not that the relationship was bad, I guess we just wanted different things. The only reason it's been hard to adjust was because it was so comfortable. We did our own things, both took care of our daughter. I don't know if she cheated on me or not, but I definitely thought it for awhile. I was a stay at home dad due to my place of business shutting down and there aren't any jobs where I live in a town of 100 people. So I'm broke, had to move in with my parents for a little bit before I get back on my feet and I'm almost 30 years old. I just felt useless. But the place I used to work at is looking for people, and I know they miss me a lot. So I almost have a guaranteed job here in the next week or so. Also we've been very civil adults about taking care of our daughter and who gets her when. I'm taking a weekend job while she takes weekdays, so it should work a lot better with the seperate parenting thing. You've all been extremely awesome going out of your way to help me. I really do appreciate it! But I'm doing well and everything is looking pretty good. I'm sure it'll be tough for awhile, but I've learned a lot from this (basically I probably won't have a relationship for a very long time lol. My first girlfriend we were together about 5 years, we just didn't have a kid together thank God). I'm gonna work on me now, and I have plenty of support from my family and friends (that includes you guys).