Turn off auto updates on the Xbox one. When it first came out, the console was always resetting to strict NAT settings when it was powered down. All I did was turn off auto updates, clear the cache, and hard reset system. That being said, I have a good network setup(Comcast helped me) great speed, no packet loss, and very low latency and me send my son still can't play destiny together 99% of the time. I still deal with, at times, levels of cheat lag so basin crucible that I want to pull my hair out. I can't help you with your network. I can reasonably say that ,oat of our connection problems are on Bungie's end.

Zoom 5341-J Modem (8x4 channels) Asus RT-AC66 (AC-1750 class router) PS4 and PS3, among other devices. Only a 15/1 bandwidth plan from TWC, but it actually clocks in about 17.5/1.2. Only offering up to 50Mb plans in my area now with the Charter/Spectrum transition under way. Should note TWC was having issues with the Motorola 6190's at one time. People weren't getting proper speeds with them a while back...IDK if other markets were also affected. Run as a basic IPv4 Ethernet setup...cat 6 b/t modem/router and 5e's to the devices on the other side of the router...simply because that is what I had on hand. Regularly connected devices have IP's bound in DHCP, the important ones like gaming consoles/PC's are also manually configured as statics with actual DNS server addresses listed. Consoles are wired. ISP tech once caught signs of fragmentation to PSN that cleared when we dropped MTU to 1400...it resolved disconnects to PSN for the PS3 so I've left it there and also use 1400 for the PS4. IPv6 is disabled, UPnP is enabled on the router as well as the PS3...but disabled for all Windows boxes except one, a media server that manages remote access ports via UPnP. No manual port forwards are set. I have left the router set to respond to pings as well. We are still wrangling with some signalling issues in the Carolinas and it is hellaconvenient to ping the network from different locations when necessary. So long as things are good coming through the Carolinas (and sometimes Atlanta), gameplay is just fine for me for the most part. Still see the oddball red bars with other players, but it isn't usually game breaking. Not prone to the "connecting to Destiny" messages on the PS4. Load times suck on the PS3, so can see them there...but I play on the PS4 now. Only boot into the PS3 to keep it updated so I have it as a backup plan if the PS4 isn't available.

Guess I need to go to a geek forum because all I get here are trolls and PS4 fanboys. Thanks for nothing, you amazing community, you!

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