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Edited by Murph Tha Smurf: 9/20/2016 8:29:53 PM
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My year, by request. Part 1 (2015-2016)

Well, Hi B.net. I'm Murph Tha Smurf, a junior (well I guess senior now) in [redacted] High School in West Virginia. Due to getting at least 3 (lowered from 30 lol but we got like 70 anyway) likes on my other post, I have been compelled to write a big tl;dr post about my year. Your choice whether to read or not because at this point tbh I don't know if it will be exciting or not. After this, you'll probably know me better than anyone but myself. Be warned I'm writing this from thought and interrupt myself an absurd amount of times with parenthesis and even brackets sometimes. *The HSTA Scholarship requires me to attend a certain number of weekly meetings each year, do a big research project and present it to some important people at the end of the year, do some community service, and attend 2/4 of the summer camps they offer. It also requires me to maintain a 3.0 GPA. Pays 8 years tuition to an in state college/university. Oh well, let's begin with the basics. I'm fairly middle class, white, male, into video games, have divorced parents, a stepdad, stepmom, a full sister (2 yrs younger than me lived with mom as well) and a half sister (shes 5 now) on the dad's side. So, at the beginning of the year, (I'm using school year by the way if you hadn't caught on yet) I was 15. I go to my dad's house on weekends. It's pretty big, we just had it built 6-7 years ago. (god it feels like a much shorter time than that) My mom lives in a big college town called Morgantown that's about an hour away from where my dad lives, so going there on Friday and back on Sunday was always a trip, and I spent a lot of time on my phone in the car because there wasn't much to do. (Possibly why sitting on bungie forums became a major hobby of mine.) (The next part is basically enough backstory to explain this year but it's mostly past stuff.) Anyway, my mom hadn't lived in Morgantown long, we moved there my freshman year. I went from a tiny private school with under 50 kids to one of the largest high schools in the state, and, looking back, I didn't take it well. I thought I was doing fine, but as I started to realize towards the end of my sophomore year, I still hadn't made really any friends. I was in a gaming club for a while but most everyone there was either too cringy or too CoD fanatic-y so I got out of that pretty quick. Long story short, my school life was essentially: I go to school, do work, chat with teachers, and sit alone at lunch. Pretty depressing looking back, but it wasn't so bad, because I had my old Xbox friends. Everyday I got home I would sprint up two flights of stairs, turn on the system, join the party with my buddies, and play with them for the rest of the night. Most of them lived in Elkins, the town where my dad works, but there were a good few just scattered across the rest of the state, really. Freshman year was pretty smooth apart from the lack of friends, I got all A's, (honors classes) kept up with my scholarship meetings (my dad got me to sign up for a big scholarship that pays 8 years tuition to any college as long as I jump through their hoops*, which is pretty cool) and for all I knew I was leading a pretty good life. I did get to see my friends in person about 4 times a year when I invite them over to my dads and we have smash bros tournaments, flashlight tag, and some other stuff. (that tradition is still alive btw) Sophomore year hits, and I go back to the same schedule. Alone at lunch, basically the same classes, except I tried to go for a higher math class, and doubled up on science (bio+Chem). It was going good until about Christmas, when I started getting lazy. I would never feel like I was getting enough game/friend time, and stepdad got in the habit of pulling my internet cord (still haven't finished the stupid prison break heist in GTA because of that lol) and I was getting swamped with homework. To get more time on the game I would get off when told and "go to bed" where I actually sat for multiple hours some nights copying answers to chem homework off the internet. When I actually got tired I would set a 5 am alarm and finish the rest in the morning. My average sleep for the later part of that year was around 5 hours. I don't know if that's normal but it doesn't sound like enough to me now. I ended up barely passing math with a D (yeah it was partially my fault but the teacher talked more about floating chickens than she did math), and most of my other classes with A's and B's, including AP Human Geography I forgot to mention earlier because I was naturally drawn to the subject and didn't really have to study much for it at all. My GPA was exactly 3.0 which meant I could slip through with my scholarship but my parents weren't really happy about it. Despite that, everything went on fairly normal, another boring summer (in which I got kicked out of the summer camp at WVU for my scholarship [i forgot to sign up lol] which is why I have to take one this summer) came and went. Okay, onto this year. Over the summer I only got more lazy, and had bit off more than I could chew with my classes, while I did take an easier math, I also took AP psych, advanced human anatomy, and some programming class I thought would be easy but the teacher wasn't chill so it wasn't going great. I got about two weeks in and had a few tests before my grades all started to plummet because i wasn't studying. My mom had stopped paying for Internet for whatever reason, so I hadn't talked to my friends in a week or so. I did play through dishonored in this time, but meh I still got bored. I managed to hide the fact that my grades were balancing on toothpicks and my 1/4 multiple choice luck for long enough that it never really effected me, because, little did I know, I would be switching schools soon. It's too long I must split it into multiple parts! This isn't a even a fifth of the whole thing! Part 2: https://www.bungie.net/en/Forum/Post/205317982/0/0/1 For when you're done: [spoiler]So B.net ... That was my year. I thought it was pretty good, how about you? I spilled my guts for you guys, so feel free to give advice on life, ask questions, or insult me for being such a scrub at life and how I'm boring. Whatever you really want to do.[/spoiler] For those wondering: [spoiler]yes, I was beyond tempted to bel air the ending.[/spoiler]

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  • Murph, you live in WV? Well shit. Might've met you once then. Talked to someone once who said things suspiciously like you type things.

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    • Well I finally got around to reading it all. Pretty good read for taking a shit.

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    • Bump for later

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      • Edited by ActivelyNutn: 5/30/2016 2:13:29 AM
        Ayee I'm from Charleston. Shouldn't be long before I find you. *Lenny face*

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        • It took a couple days, but I read it all.

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        • Edited by Murph Tha Smurf: 5/28/2016 4:46:06 AM
          (This part may be kinda short because I don't like to talk about it much, but I'll try to get the point across. I still haven't told it to any of my friends. It also makes me sound like a whiny baby but don't judge meh I'm spilling my guts.) Me, being a rebellious teen (lolno), was getting pretty fed up with the bs of not getting to play with friends for so long, so I just wanted to stay home and sleep. It was some long holiday weekend like Labor Day or Memorial Day or something about 3 weeks into the school year. I was at my moms because it was a holiday weekend so it was an exception to the schedule and she got to keep me. My mom and stepdad insisted we go to the lake or something. I was being the whiniest person I could possibly be at the time, but I felt it was justified because all I wanted to do was stay home this once, but nope, "Murph you're coming and there's no question". So I just build more and more rage until they start to threaten to take away my ps4 for a year and some bs like that which i draw the line at, I mean "I'm 15 not 7" was the thought going through my head despite looking back now I was probably at least partially at fault, but there were better ways my parents could've dealt with it. Anyway, I'm not really the type of guy to get extreme emotions in any scenario, especially violent ones, but I got pissed. I don't often curse in person (I've probably done it like 5-15 times ever and only ever done it angrily once) so it was pretty easy to measure my temper had blown when we were walking towards the lake and I stuck my finger into stepdad's chest yelling "-blam!- YOU" at the top of my lungs. Now he didn't like that, not one bit. (*Insert joker copypasta*) (jk) But seriously though, he hits me, I hit back like the weakling I clearly and and keep trying to fight back but it doesn't work out to well. I gave up pretty quickly when he got my throat (him being a 40 year old biker I really stood no chance anyway but at least I didn't stand there and take it.) . After some scolding that fell on deaf ears they left me to sit on a nearby guardrail and said they'd be back in like 4 hours to go home and I should stay there. I was still mad and just wanted to lay down, so I did. People kept walking by me and saying stuff like "is he dead" (which probably was a good assumption because it was the side of the road but I was getting tired of it because they kept waking me up lol). So I decided to trek into the woods a little where I wouldn't worry people and lay down there instead. I found a spot where I could hear some pretty average tunes (there was some party with loud music on the lake and I had left my phone with my good old classic rock on it in the car) which was cool I guess since there wasn't much to do and I wasn't about to go beg forgiveness. I debated multiple times to go down to the party and see if I could blend in and have some fun, but it seemed like too much work. Eventually there wasn't much else to do but sleep, so that's what I did. I wasn't too far into the woods so I figured they'd find me if they called for me once or twice even if I fell asleep. Anyways, I woke up a couple hours(? I actually have no clue because I didn't have a PHONE) later and was looking around because I figured it was about time to head home since the sun was setting. I looked around and couldn't find my mom's car or stepdad's bike, and everyone was gone including the partying people from earlier. I didn't know what to do (reminder: no phone) so I kinda explored around, used the bathroom (in an actual restroom because apparently this lake is some tourist attraction and had those, too bad there wasn't anyone around to ask for a phone. I don't really remember how long but my mom's car drove back through some time later when I was sitting on a rock watching the road (if you couldn't tell I wasn't in the biggest rush to get back to her) and I got up and figured it'd probably be a pretty good idea to tell her where I was, so I went down to the road and a cop pulled up and was like "are you murph" and I was like "ye" and he was like "do you have a job" and I was like "nah" and he was like "respect your parents" and I was like "sure bud good talk good talk". Then my mom walked up (she had turned around) and I got in the car and I didn't really try to explain myself because I was still not in the mood. Apparently the cops were about to get out the dogs and started looking for me, so maybe I should've stayed in the woods longer so I could have told you guys about how I ran from a K-9 unit. Meh, maybe sometime in the future, it does sound like fun. Back on track, I went to my dad's and skipped the next few days of school (him and stepmom were worried sick about meanwhile other parents were just PO'd, so they had driven the hour to help look because apparently I'd been missing that long. Anyway, after a sp00ky custody fight and a restraining order or some crap on stepdad it ended up that my dad was driving me an hour to school every morning. (Forgot to mention a very, very similar thing has happened at the end of last year when stepdad through me on the ground and bruised up my face so when I found out I had to get up ultra early again I was pretty disappointed, but it felt better than the alternative. After like a week of that some slightly more official thing came through where I got to talk to a family court judge in private, told her I had everything I needed at my dads, then she asked if I wanted anything, to which I modestly answered one item: my ps4. Mom didn't want to send it, but she did eventually. During the time of the hour long drive to school (which wasn't helping my low-amount-of-sleep-issue or my grades) I used the PC at dads to chat with friends through steam as well as texting them, figured out some of my friend's schedules at Elkins High so I could actually hang out with them, once I switched which I knew was coming soon. I basically stopped doing work in Morgantown entirely because there was no point in making up all the work, Elkins is a much smaller town and had less than half the students and course offerings of Morgantown. I was happy, and excited though. I would get to see my friends daily, eat lunch with them, live close to them, not have to deal with parents who smoke, and I'd actually have a second chance to not be an absolute antisocial rock who just watched fun from a distance, which I was mostly already established as in Morgantown and not much could be done. I got lucky and was transferring in the day right after a parent teacher conference or something, so I was able to go in and meet the teachers the night before so they could expect me the next day. It was pretty cool because my new history teacher knew my freshman history teacher, and I would at least have one class with someone I knew (English honors). Let's call him Brad. I also had 1st lunch with some other friends. Part 3: https://www.bungie.net/en/Forum/Post/205318203/0/0/1

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          • Murph it's pretty cool that you took the time to take stock of your past year and determine some of the ways in which you've grown or changed. Thanks for your story.

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            • You should do bullet points or something. :s

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              • Tldr

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                • murph you pretty cool

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                  • Most anticipated bel air of the year Am very disappoint

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                    • Murph, you're a legend! Thank you for sharing your story, it was nicely written and I really enjoyed reading it :)

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                    • Well OP, I read it all. I'm heading into High School when the summer ends. Are there any type you could give me?

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                      • You should remove the school name. People can use that information against you in a negative way. They could track you. Stay safe man

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                        • Holy shit, I can totally relate to part 2 with the entire conflict and reasoning between you and your parents.

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