I am a "Xurner" and I'm damn proud about it. I'm sorry that you can't be that special snowflake. You might want to think of better ways to waste your time rather than pounding your fist on the floor and flailing.
I guess in a way, I "earned" my Hawkmoon by grinding Tigerstrikes and was randomly blessed by the RNGesus.
If Xur was to sell the Hawkmoon (despite the console exclusiveness) next week, would I whine?
Hell no. In what way does this entitle me to a piece of loot that has a % chance to drop like everything else?
EDIT: I should have said that both is an answer. My personal opinion is WHO CARES, in case no one got what I was siding with.
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To be completely honest it's both :-/ and same has to be true for most of us :)