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Edited by Death: 4/30/2014 4:56:32 PM
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You walk in on your lover cheating on you...

What would you do? Let's say you've had 3 kids together and married for 15 years. The love of your life. The two sub-human pieces of filth are there, on your bed. How do you react? Sometimes I can understand why the husband goes on a rampage killing them both. You want to know why? Because in that moment he just realized his whole life has just been one huge lie. Everything he built his life around has collapsed. That would cause a man to murder.

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  • I didn't become violent but I did get a lawyer and got a divorce. Mistake or not, I couldn't trust her anymore. Some of the blame lies with me. There were other problems that neither of us addressed before her affair. The affair was just her way of making the best of a bad situation. She sought out help, tried to get me to go for therapy sessions and I wouldn't go. She turned to one of "my friends" and well, you guys are smart enough to figure out the rest. So I left and got a lawyer. It doesn't make it right for anyone else but me. It hurt like hell, still does sometimes. Funny fact: she still hasn't told her family the truth. Not about her affair or her share. I admit I am at partial fault. Sadly, I run into her family and old mutual friends on a daily basis. I wish I could tell you that as adults we know there is two sides to every story but we all know that isn't true. Be prepared for that. She is the mother of my children so I have swallowed my pride and ignore the looks, the "oh hey long time no see sorry really busy can't talk" lines. Wow, wall of text. Sorry about that. Problem is you asked a question with no easy solutions. My solution, while right for me, may not be right for you. I know there is pain involved, so don't do anything rash. Weigh all the options. I wish you the best.

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