My older bro moved to Hawaii. And asked me and our mother if we're interested in starting a family restaurant (mexican food) according to my brother the only "mexican food" they have there is taco bell. We have da [i]codes [/i]for legit mexican food (mother is full mexican and knows how to cook great shit) He says it'll be a big hit over there. With our good credit and my brother and mother's financial support it's possible. Start a new life, make new friends and meet new people. A 2nd chance. Hoooowever she wants to take me and my other brother with her, leaving my step-daddy/ younger bro's daddy in California. He knows we're "visiting" Hawaii but he doesn't know we don't plan on coming back.. I asked her why shouldn't we tell anybody (she also doesn't want me to tell my biological father and his family about leaving California) , she says he'll saboteur it. And this needs to be as low down as possible. Only letting close family know. My problem is my heart is telling me to tell my step-daddy. If I were him and this happen to me - that my wife & sons left me without a warning I would be devastated. But I trust my mothers judgement too. I just need input if I was unclear about something just ask. I'll probably respond in a PM (cause I normally am not this open to you people) but this is stressing me out.