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Kids Who Insult Adult Gamers (April 4, 2015)

Ok. So I'm 37 years old and have always been an avid gamer. I am also a married man with a mortgage, car payments and a job. My gaming is a hobby that is well deserved. Perhaps more than the ones who insult adults for gaming and have their games handed to them by mommy and daddy. Here's the thing... My generation is the first to grow up with console gaming so there is no comparison to an older generation. No one told me at a certain age I was supposed to stop liking gaming. The story and subject matter is mature. I'm not playing children's games. So I think that trying to insult an adult for gaming is one of the weakest insults you can drop. It doesn't bother me but I have heard it a few too many times. The reason I bring this up now is earlier I was in a Vault of Glass raid team with what I thought were mature teens/ young adults. We were fighting Atheon and one of these douche's friends pops in and immediately starts insulting the group and calling us kids. So I said, "Why don't we focus on talking about the raid we're in for now?". The douche starts getting smart so I mention the fact that he came in insulting us and calling us kids when I'm in my 30s. That's when the lame insult comes into play. And then the arguing starts. Douche's friend tells me to shut up so douche can keep going on about how cool he was for hitting level 32 in the first week of the Dark Below. Had I been thinking clearly at the time, I would have called him out on that supposed 32 in first week comment. I know that no one reached that level in the first week. There is nothing to support the insult that adults shouldn't be gaming. Last I checked, over 50% of adults played games in one form or another. Even if it's on their phones. So to all the kiddies out there who use this insult, it makes no sense. I've just gotten it a few too many times now and had to speak out. How many of you are adult gamers out there? Have you been insulted for revealing your age? At what age exactly was I supposed to turn my nose up at gaming? I didn't get the memo apparently. How many of you think this is a totally reasonable hobby for adults? Do you ever lower your age to avoid criticism? Why should we feel like we have to just because there are ignorant, immature kids out there who use their parents as an example for the average adult? I know quite a few people who game with their dads. Does that make their dad a loser? Please feel free to comment on this matter. I really want to hear from the adults out there so I know I'm not crazy. Let's put this ridiculous insult and way of thinking to rest. And if you're a kid and comment on here, it shouldn't be negative since you have no experience in the matter. You will be shamed. Edit: I'm so glad to see so many people responding! Hopefully this will spread. I've had some great discussions with you people. Thanks and keep it up! Edit 2: Still going strong! The word is spreading. Thanks so much everyone. So much insightful discussions and comments. Except for the one troll.... But honestly, I expected nothing but comments like his. Thanks community for showing positive support. Edit 3: I'm so humbled by all of the responses and discussion in here. I didn't expect even 20 comments but, over 500?! This is great. With all of this respectful discussion going on I would like to think someone at Bungie has noticed. I'd like to hear from someone with Bungie. Let us know what inspired them to go into this field, how old they were when they started gaming etc. I never intended for kids in general to take grief from this forum. If I were to make negative comments about all younger gamers I'd be no better than the kids that insult adults. You friendly young gamers know who you are. I've defended quite a few in here.
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  • I agree with everything you said except for the percentage of adults that have played games, phone games don't count.

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  • Adult gamers are so much better than teen gamers most the time. Definitely allot more supportive of failures.

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  • Edited by Fireguy1920: 11/3/2015 3:24:23 AM
    Honestly, I feel bad for you. I'm only 11 years old, but I feel you! I've never insulted any adults for gaming; I actually think it's pretty cool. I always imagine myself gaming as an adult and being really good at video games. I know that when I'm an adult, I'll definitely still be gaming. Keep it up man, don't let anyone stop you. My friend's dad plays Destiny, and I think it's awesome. I even joined his clan! There's nothing bad about being an adult gamer. I think all adults should play video games. Then they'll actually understand what the kids say when they're talking about a video game lol. (That wasn't meant to be mean, it was just a joke.) Keep gaming!

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    • You sound like a huge pussy. Suck it up, they're just stupid kids.

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    • Autism incarnate aka GODSGARBAGE: [quote]You don't have one. You said in another post you didn't. You also said in another post you were 22 years old. Make up your mind kid. Yea I am really good at retaining info. Apparently you aren't though because you forgot the lies you said before about not having one and being 22 years old. Still trying i see. Give it up we are way past you being able to comeback on my insults. Every single post you have made thus far makes you look more and more stupid[/quote] Me: [quote]Quote me where I said I was 22 and comment where I did so I get a notification.[/quote] Autism incarnate aka GODSGARBAGE: [quote]Oh its there im just too lazy to look for it right now. Doesn't change the fact the damage has been done. Give it up son[/quote] These are the kinds of people who support the OP and his feelings.

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      • How did an adult manage to get butthurt enough to make a multi-paragraph thread about how some kids called him some mean names?

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        • Never get insulted by teen gamers. first realize that to these kids, how well they do in any given video game is their highest achievement in life. They have yet to experience real life. I love to listen to them, to tell me how bad I am, or how they would kick my ass. Here is real life, I moved out and supported myself since 18. Got married, spent 20 years in the military. Retired, as a senior enlisted, seen war and peace. Have food, home and car. These are achievements that counted. Had real world impact for me and others. So if some snotty punk wants to talk shit, let them. I know they will eventually meet real life and then the real fun begins.

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          • 33. Gaming since Atari. Kids. Smoking hot wife. Awesome job. Been around the world and back.

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            • It's easy: Call them a squeaker and they stop...sometimes...

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              • Edited by GamerNinja: 5/16/2015 11:38:00 PM
                Same age and really never had an issue. Hit up our clan and I promise you will have a Raid group that is top-notch. Sorry this happened. 37 year olds are gamers also.

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                • I don't care what your age is I will kill you and tbag you all the same.

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                  • Preach it

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                  • Edited by YahyaTV: 6/15/2015 7:15:37 PM
                    Just a game

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                  • Great post! I feel your pain... hence the reason I joined the clan adult gamers.

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                    • You care too much, about too little. Most people I play with, that are kids, don't hassle me for being old. If I don't hassle them for being squeaky. A gamer is a gamer, your age doesn't matter. Respect is respect, no one cares about your level, gear or grimoire score. Not to sound like a dick but, I find it hard to believe you were in the military if something a kid says bothers you that much. Maybe, it is just the gamer in you that is bothered IDK.

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                      • Im 18 and I prefer playing with adults rather than people floating around my age. I have no patience for squeakers tho haha. Im going to be arrested at my senior home for pushing over the nurse who tried to take my playstation 7 from me.

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                      • Honestly I am a teenager and I don't mind playing with adults. The adults are the ones, as children, that helped shape a generation of gaming and the games we play now. That demands respect.

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                      • Told you i was gonna have fun with it. He is so desperate.

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                        • I can't even imagine how annoying that would be to receive that a lot. I'm 15 years old and have been gaming since I came out of the womb. Throughout the years, my friends list has consisted of nothing more than adults. The reason why? Because I have respect for them. I understand that if I'm not a jerk to them they won't be a jerk to me. It actually irritates me playing with kids my age because of how they are. There's just too much boasting, trash talking, and ignorance from most of them. And sure if anyone actually plays with me and knows me they'd know I joke around a lot but when it comes down to it I really cannot stand teens and ESPECIALLY 10 year olds trying to talk down older gamers.

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                        • And just think about the people dishing out the insults, I'm sure when they're in their 30's or even 50's they'll still be playing games. My mid 50's dad plays Xbox but nothing online, he is very successful in life

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                        • Edited by paused444: 2/25/2019 5:02:26 AM
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                          • CantStopSuckinCock just can't get over the fact he lost an arguement so he post our arguement here again. Lol why i do not know because well, get ready for it...... it's already here in this thread. He says im autistic because i spelled my name with all caps. Lol that is his insult. Such a hypocrite. CantStopTheRock has no spaces lacks the proper punctuation and doesn't have a single proper noun so it shouldn't be capitalized at all. Come on Rocky this post is for you.... im waiting

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