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3/5/2015 10:02:50 PM
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Venting
Feel free to comment whatever is bothering you or that you need to vent about. Don't want a response or looking to have an argument with people. Haven't been feeling the best lately and really just need somewhere to vent about this topic.
[spoiler]Last week I found out that I will NEVER be able to have a child. Growing up in an awful environment, I always told myself that when I had children I'd love them and take care of then like they deserved to be. Having a family is something I've always wanted, I didn't have to think about it. All I ever hear women say is: it's my body my choice. If you want to go sleep around and have sex, it's no mystery what going to happen. I've met lots of women that would have abortions at least twice a month, that's just sick. When you're doing it that often it shouldn't be a choice anymore. They should pass a law that if you have more than 5 abortions, you should automatically have to get your tubes tied, that way you can't continue to have abortions. I'm so sick of these women that obviously only care about themselves. They have the ability to do something others wish they could. They will never understand the pain you feel when the doctors tell you, you can't have a baby. [/spoiler]
I'm in no way posting this for attention, I just really kind of need to get this of my chest. Please don't tell our fight with me.
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2 Replies[quote]I've met lots of women that would have abortions at least twice a month, that's just sick.[/quote]That's not even possible.
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[quote]I'm so sick of these women that obviously only care about themselves.[/quote] What else are they supposed to care for?
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1 ReplyDepending on what conditions you may or may not have, if you haven't tried yet, you could still try to have a child of your own. My sister was told she never could have a child as well, yet she currently has two, healthy daughters. If you have your mind set on adoption, by all means go through with it. Give a child an opportunity that they otherwise might not have.
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2 RepliesI have many things to vent about bout i have to say the biggest is how the media is making gamers out to be, or stating that a person in prison for murder played gta when he was little or currently. The game hasnothing to do with it. Its the mental state of that person. Also, "we should get rid of these violent vidro games its teaching kids violence is ok" bull its a video game, they give it a rating and u sit here and buy ur kid the game and wonder "where did he learn that language the game doesnt have it" u gotta think adults game to as im an adult and i go through days with filtered words due to the kid in my house but back to what i was saying these kids troll and curse but parents are the cause of it. Because 1) u baught the game for ur kid even tho its rated m 2) u dont punish ur kid And no i dont mean time out or grounded when i was a youngin i was smacked and had my butt whooped if i said half the stuff kids under 18 on games say and it makes me cringe. And another thing the little kids who sit here and tradh talk playing rated m games but whine cause they get picked on for being young really its rated m and u decide to trash talk prople who are 18+ so ontop of a long day of dealing with ur own kids even tho u love them u need that break and dont want to hear. 13-15 year olds yelling vulgar words.
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1 ReplyMy heart goes out to you. My mom couldn't have kids either so they adopted me when I was 8 months old. I love them as if we were blood related she doesn't regret not being able to have children herself. If you do end up adopting you will give a child a chance at a wonderful life they otherwise wouldn't receive. I hope it works out for you.
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It's okay baby.
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9 RepliesThat's a good idea. Its not completely outlawed yet there's a limit.[spoiler]I'm sorry your going through that[/spoiler]
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1 ReplyIm sorry. I hope you find some way to care for a child even if its not your own. There are more children in need than loving parents in the world. Stay strong
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1 ReplyYou remind me of a character from a show. They couldn't have children because of a carriage accident, so they went around cutting out the wombs of women that had abortions.
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3 RepliesAdoption is the way to go. Birthing a child is almost selfish with the amount of kids whom don't have parents these days. Put a roof over some kids head and help solve over population at the same time.
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5 RepliesAll the stupid people who keep saying Homosexuality is a choice! It's not a choice and it's getting really annoying how people cannot understand something so simple. So many people being all homophobic because they just ain't comfortable with their sexuality that they get all defensive over stupid shit. CALM THE -blam!- DOWN AND JUST LET IT HAPPEN BRUH.
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8 RepliesI find this odd considering you actually have a kid and you're married.
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1 ReplyEdited by Akkedox: 3/9/2015 5:40:21 AMI was told I couldn't have children when I was in 8th grade or so. I was having a lot of tests done since I was at high risk for kidney failure and some other things. They said I could get pregnant, but I'd more than likely die of organ failure during the birth. Makes an odd conversation of "I can get pregnant but I can't give birth". I'm personally fine with it because I've never wanted children. Finding someone else who doesn't want them may be a struggle though. [spoiler]I find abortions necessary in some cases, for if someone like myself would get pregnant. Obviously you should use birth control and all of that, but it isn't 100%. I always get a bit uncomfortable at anti-abortion statements because of this, but I'll just have to get my tubes tied when the time comes. [/spoiler]
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3 RepliesI liked christians more before b.net showed me how retarded some of them are
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1 ReplyMy grandma was told by doctors that she wouldn't have any kids.. She had my Dad and my Aunt. There's still hope for you :)
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4 RepliesGo adopt a kid. I don't like venting nor do I trust people.
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2 RepliesI'd be devastated as well. I don't want a kid now in my life but I sure as hell want one when I'm more financially stable to support my kid. I'd be broken. There are ways around though as some people commented. You'll have your child.
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That would crush me if I had that told to me
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1 ReplyMy mother was told she couldn't have a kid by almost 5 doctors [spoiler]she had three[/spoiler]
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9 RepliesMy company is going through a reorganization and I may lose my job in two months My 10 year old dog recently had a $4000 surgery on her leg and now she throws up blood all the time because of the pills she was on My 1yr old is sick this week and constantly crying because she didn't feel good Probably other stuff but these are on my mind now
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17 RepliesEdited by Reign of Bane: 3/8/2015 9:59:31 AM*Walks over and hugs OP* [spoiler]Sorry to hear your news, reading your post did make me feel sad, I can only empathise with you as I am a man. I hope that there is a way for you to conceive. There are options depending on the circumstances and science is making new discoveries all the time. I do have faith that there is a way. I do not agree with blasé abortion but who really could? People should be more careful if they are not ready to be parents, there are certain occasions where it is acceptable in my opinion. Not the needless waste of life that you described but the need for an abortion due to circumstances not at their control. [/spoiler] My vent today: I really wish I could manipulate time and matter. Traverse both when I choose and please. Ever met someone that you would like to know better, only to be separated by an invisible barrier you cannot break?, It sucks. ={
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Girls, high school, college, and prom. No wind of words are pouring from my vents at the moment, so this is all I've got to say.
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1 ReplyI hate how there's a strong sense of favoritism among my group of friends
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1 ReplyOh yikes, that's terrible. You have my condolences
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4 RepliesDoktors don't know everything with a 100 per ent guarantee
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8 RepliesI Feel for you. As a guy I'll never truly understand this, but my thoughts go out to you, and hope that you'll be able become a mother eventually, even if it isn't a child of your own flesh and blood. Best wishes, A concerned Gamer
