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1/8/2013 10:50:45 AM
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Someone is trying to flirt with the girl I've been going out with

We're not official or anything, but we have been dating for the past few months. Don't know if she is actually into me but we talk a lot. Anyway this dude keeps trying to talk to her as well even though she told me they aren't that close. So basically trying to hit on her. And it's pretty obvious he is being a little too nice even if he just wants to be friends with her. And actually there are two guys. She told me the other guy was just her good friend, but he actually bragged about her being his girlfriend and it's pretty obvious he really likes her. They actually went out several times too, but to my knowledge not in several months and only a few times. Flood what should I do. I should I challenge them to a duel? Okay. But really, what should I do? [Edited on 01.08.2013 2:52 AM PST]
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  • obviously the guy wants to [b] SLAP YOUR NUTS[/b]
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  • [quote][b]Posted by:[/b] MyNameIsCharlie Just think on how a dog would solve your problem. There is clearly an ownership challenge, which means your property wasn't properly marked. The only answer is that you must pee on her.[/quote] In other words, in case you probably didn't interpret it correctly, [b]make her your girl.[/b]
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  • As I tell all guys here who bring up situations like this here. Time for your foot to kick some ass. Edit: Scratch that, just read more of your posts. If it's not official and you two aren't in an exclusive relationship, you have no grounds. Make a move or deal with it. [Edited on 01.08.2013 12:15 PM PST]
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  • Just think on how a dog would solve your problem. There is clearly an ownership challenge, which means your property wasn't properly marked. The only answer is that you must pee on her.
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    Silent
    Silent

    I have the right to remain... - old

    What is this, middle school?
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  • Dating for a few months and not official? That is a foreign concept to me. I usually always am "official" within the first month.
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  • Make her your girl. You even said in your post you're not officially dating. So she's doing nothing absolutely wrong. You however are jealous.
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  • Have a 3 some.
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  • If your relationship isn't official, then you can't complain.
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  • You need to up your game OP. If they are showing more interest than you then she probably is more likely to go for them, I doubt she even knows you like her. Have you kissed? If so ask her if she wants to make it official. But to be honest OP I don't know the situation, only you can make an impact.
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  • Slap his nuts.
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  • If she likes you, you'll get her. women always have options.
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    I AM BEOWOLF!! - 8/24/2016 3:28:52 PM

    make it official, then defend your -blam!-
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  • [quote][b]Posted by:[/b] Marinade [quote][b]Posted by:[/b] Slap My Nuts [quote][b]Posted by:[/b] I Judge Bread I Sit her down and ask her if she wants to be with you, if she says yes then you need not worry. If she says no then you've been friend zoned because you left it too long.[/quote] We're probably going on another date soon so I'll see how that goes first. Then maybe afterwards I can bring up the topic.[/quote] I'd suggest bringing it up during the date. Why leave it longer if you're pretty sure she already knows you want to? There's a decent chance she's starting to second guess that because you haven't gone for it yet.[/quote] Will try.
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  • flash yer nuts
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  • Pee on her, so they know she is your territory.
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  • Congrats, your love interest is attractive, and obviously other guys wish to be in the position you are in.
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  • Kill him [Edited on 01.08.2013 5:05 AM PST]
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  • I seem to remember a lot of troll threads from you about your GF, somehow I'm having a hard time believing this. If you [i]are[/i] serious, then just talk to her about it.
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  • [quote][b]Posted by:[/b] Slap My Nuts [quote][b]Posted by:[/b] I Judge Bread I Sit her down and ask her if she wants to be with you, if she says yes then you need not worry. If she says no then you've been friend zoned because you left it too long.[/quote] We're probably going on another date soon so I'll see how that goes first. Then maybe afterwards I can bring up the topic.[/quote] I'd suggest bringing it up during the date. Why leave it longer if you're pretty sure she already knows you want to? There's a decent chance she's starting to second guess that because you haven't gone for it yet.
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  • Slap his nuts.
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  • [quote][b]Posted by:[/b] I Judge Bread I Sit her down and ask her if she wants to be with you, if she says yes then you need not worry. If she says no then you've been friend zoned because you left it too long.[/quote] We're probably going on another date soon so I'll see how that goes first. Then maybe afterwards I can bring up the topic.
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  • Sit her down and ask her if she wants to be with you, if she says yes then you need not worry. If she says no then you've been friend zoned because you left it too long.
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  • Slap HIS nuts!
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  • [quote][b]Posted by:[/b] Marinade [quote][b]Posted by:[/b] Slap My Nuts [quote][b]Posted by:[/b] Marinade [quote][b]Posted by:[/b] Slap My Nuts [b]We're not official or anything[/b], but we have been dating for the past few months.[/quote] Then you're not dating. Since you are not official I don't see why you'd think other guys shouldn't be flirting with her. Either start an actual relationship, or it's your fault.[/quote] Whoever gave you the idea that dating means you have to be in a long term relationship? A lot of the time it leads to that and continues during that but doesn't mean it is exclusive for long term relationships.[/quote] You said yourself that you are not official. By the sounds of things you've gone on some dates, but that's it. If you haven't discussed and agreed to be in an exclusive relationship, then you aren't in one. Either have that discussion or stop complaining that other guys are showing interest in a girl you aren't officially dating.[/quote] Probably won't have to make it known. I know the girl pretty well and those guys almost certainly have no chance with her. But yeah I'll still work towards that exclusivity. We're making good progress, and maybe in a few months I can get the job done.
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  • punch him in the face
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