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How a Bully Saved my Life

I used to be a pretty nerdy kid back in high school. I was into playing video games and not sports, not working out, dressing poorly and being awkward and shy around girls. Being hopeless like this of course a bully took notice of me and began to harass me. He would call me names and shove me down and push me around. It was like torture. Anyway I got tired of his crap so I started working out, flirting with girls, getting into sports, and improving the quality of my life a ton. I began to finally live life and if not for that bully I would still probably a skinny nerd playing video games all day. I am glad that bully entered my life. I know bullies get a lot of hate in the media when they say "oh they are killing our children" when bullies are just a normal part of life and growing up and facing adversity. So I just wanted to put a positive spin on bullying and how it builds character and toughness.
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  • [quote][b]Posted by:[/b] DatDudeBV [quote][b]Posted by:[/b] Dreadnough7 [quote][b]Posted by:[/b] pwnage79 In other words, Studness confirms that PSU is his alt. Way to go.[/quote] I feel dumb for momentarily forgetting about PSU.[/quote] Dont worry. he forgot about you too. Oh wait, he didnt even know who you were in the first place.[/quote] Your reading comprehension skills are truly terribad. Also, you got busted PSU. [Edited on 12.06.2012 3:38 PM PST]

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  • [quote][b]Posted by:[/b] Xanarxses [quote][b]Posted by:[/b] DatDudeBV [quote][b]Posted by:[/b] Xanarxses [/quote] Anything thing else to say tough guy? [/quote] lol look at who's talking.[/quote] What about me? Im not the one calling people little "b-words" over the internet. Actually its been alot of people insulting me. Not the other way around. Hmm, could it be the fact that everyone acts really tough when behind a computer?

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  • Why the hell dont you two morons take this to PMs? This thread is starting to get way off topic.. actually it is off topic now.

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  • [quote][b]Posted by:[/b] DatDudeBV [quote][b]Posted by:[/b] Xanarxses [/quote] Anything thing else to say tough guy? [/quote] lol look at who's talking.

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  • [quote][b]Posted by:[/b] DatDudeBV [quote][b]Posted by:[/b] car15 Dude hasn't learned anything about life. He still gets the same ditzy girls who are attracted to his "bad boy" attitude and then loses them when he cheats on them. I had a long chat with one of his many ex-girlfriends and learned a lot about the kind of person he is.[/quote] So basically youre jelly that he gets more girls than you.[/quote] Nothing in his post suggests that.

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  • [quote][b]Posted by:[/b] Xanarxses [/quote] Anything thing else to say tough guy?

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  • [quote][b]Posted by:[/b] Dreadnough7 [quote][b]Posted by:[/b] pwnage79 In other words, Studness confirms that PSU is his alt. Way to go.[/quote] I feel dumb for momentarily forgetting about PSU.[/quote] Dont worry. he forgot about you too. Oh wait, he didnt even know who you were in the first place.

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  • [quote][b]Posted by:[/b] DatDudeBV [quote][b]Posted by:[/b] Xanarxses [quote][b]Posted by:[/b] DatDudeBV [quote][b]Posted by:[/b] Xanarxses In other words OP is a little -blam!-.[/quote] Coming from you? LOLOLOLOL[/quote] I feel the exact same way about you[/quote] You do? That takes balls saying that over the internet. [/quote] Once again I feel the exact same way about you.

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  • [quote][b]Posted by:[/b] pwnage79 In other words, Studness confirms that PSU is his alt. Way to go.[/quote] Yup. You caught me. Haha that would be impressive though if it were true. That kind of devotion and character switching would be masterful. [Edited on 12.06.2012 3:31 PM PST]

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  • [quote][b]Posted by:[/b] Xanarxses [quote][b]Posted by:[/b] DatDudeBV [quote][b]Posted by:[/b] Xanarxses In other words OP is a little -blam!-.[/quote] Coming from you? LOLOLOLOL[/quote] I feel the exact same way about you[/quote] You do? That takes balls saying that over the internet.

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  • [quote][b]Posted by:[/b] car15 Dude hasn't learned anything about life. He still gets the same ditzy girls who are attracted to his "bad boy" attitude and then loses them when he cheats on them. I had a long chat with one of his many ex-girlfriends and learned a lot about the kind of person he is.[/quote] So basically youre jelly that he gets more girls than you.

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  • [quote][b]Posted by:[/b] Garem [quote][b]Posted by:[/b] Quest is back [quote][b]Posted by:[/b] Garem [quote][b]Posted by:[/b] DatDudeBV and I have no sympathy for weak willed people who kill themselves. They are pathetic and selfish. [/quote] So if someone suffers through four years of daily physical and psychological torture, then finally snaps, they're weak? Someone who put up with a bully who constantly tormented them for sparse amusement is selfish? You need to rethink your definitions.[/quote] If someone lets something happen constantly for four years, I'd place part of the blame on them. They should take the initiative somewhere along the line to try and solve their problem, whether that be getting help from an authority figure or doing something themselves.[/quote] Much easier said than done.[/quote] That is true.

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  • [quote][b]Posted by:[/b] pwnage79 In other words, Studness confirms that PSU is his alt. Way to go.[/quote] I feel dumb for momentarily forgetting about PSU.

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  • [quote][b]Posted by:[/b] DatDudeBV [quote][b]Posted by:[/b] Xanarxses In other words OP is a little -blam!-.[/quote] Coming from you? LOLOLOLOL[/quote] I feel the exact same way about you

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  • [quote][b]Posted by:[/b] pwnage79 In other words, Studness confirms that PSU is his alt. Way to go.[/quote] HAHAHAHAHAAHA

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  • Last person who tried to bully me got his ass kicked. I got some shoes and a hoodie and snuck up behind him and slammed the side of my fist into his temple and kept on walking. He stopped -blam!- with me right after. In other words do not take anyone else's -blam!-. That is how you get far in school socially. [Edited on 12.06.2012 3:29 PM PST]

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  • [quote][b]Posted by:[/b] DatDudeBV [quote][b]Posted by:[/b] General Dripik [quote][b]Posted by:[/b] DatDudeBV [quote][b]Posted by:[/b] General Dripik If I ever saw one again I'd beat them within an inch of their life. [/quote] Sure ya would champ. [/quote]Be condescending all you want lol. I don't care what I would have to hit them with I would honestly do it for what they have done to me. Like the OP they did change me over time...back then I was too nice to fight back. I should of done it back then and I hate myself for not doing it. Of course I'd do it now if I saw them.[/quote] So say you saw you old childhood bully walking down the street in your town. Youd grab a bat or a knife and use it on them?[/quote]More than likely. Consequence's aside I'd probably feel a lot better about myself if I did it. Although the chances of me doing that are really slim now since I left London. Which so far has done me a lot of good. [Edited on 12.06.2012 3:29 PM PST]

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  • In other words, Studness confirms that PSU is his alt. Way to go.

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  • [quote][b]Posted by:[/b] Studness4 [quote][b]Posted by:[/b] General Dripik You needed some douche to tell you that? To change you? I was left with severe social anxiety disorder because of those -blam!-s. If I ever saw one again I'd beat them within an inch of their life. ITT idiots trying to justify bullying.[/quote] For simple bullying? I personally harbor no ill will towards the guy who bullied me. If anything I would shake his hand and buy him a beer, he helped me become the man I am today and am happy he acted like a jerk, besides hes probably a normal guy now, same with your bullies. No need beating them up over the past.[/quote] Funny enough, I ran into my bully at a bar a few months ago. He's still an -blam!-. Obviously he's not as overt about it now because you can't get away with beating random people up when you're a legal adult, but he hasn't changed one bit. Dude hasn't learned anything about life. He still gets the same ditzy girls who are attracted to his "bad boy" attitude and then loses them when he cheats on them. I had a long chat with one of his many ex-girlfriends and learned a lot about the kind of person he is.

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  • [quote][b]Posted by:[/b] Quest is back [quote][b]Posted by:[/b] Garem [quote][b]Posted by:[/b] DatDudeBV and I have no sympathy for weak willed people who kill themselves. They are pathetic and selfish. [/quote] So if someone suffers through four years of daily physical and psychological torture, then finally snaps, they're weak? Someone who put up with a bully who constantly tormented them for sparse amusement is selfish? You need to rethink your definitions.[/quote] If someone lets something happen constantly for four years, I'd place part of the blame on them. They should take the initiative somewhere along the line to try and solve their problem, whether that be getting help from an authority figure or doing something themselves.[/quote] Much easier said than done.

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  • [quote][b]Posted by:[/b] Xanarxses In other words OP is a little -blam!-.[/quote] Coming from you? LOLOLOLOL

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  • [quote][b]Posted by:[/b] General Dripik [quote][b]Posted by:[/b] DatDudeBV [quote][b]Posted by:[/b] General Dripik If I ever saw one again I'd beat them within an inch of their life. [/quote] Sure ya would champ. [/quote]Be condescending all you want lol. I don't care what I would have to hit them with I would honestly do it for what they have done to me. Like the OP they did change me over time...back then I was too nice to fight back. I should of done it back then and I hate myself for not doing it. Of course I'd do it now if I saw them.[/quote] They were just being stupid teenagers. Nearly killing them now when they are probably mature adults is just senseless and childish. Just leave the past in the past bro no reason to hate. You should have stood up for yourself back then.

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  • [quote][b]Posted by:[/b] General Dripik [quote][b]Posted by:[/b] DatDudeBV [quote][b]Posted by:[/b] General Dripik If I ever saw one again I'd beat them within an inch of their life. [/quote] Sure ya would champ. [/quote]Be condescending all you want lol. I don't care what I would have to hit them with I would honestly do it for what they have done to me. Like the OP they did change me over time...back then I was too nice to fight back. I should of done it back then and I hate myself for not doing it. Of course I'd do it now if I saw them.[/quote] So say you saw you old childhood bully walking down the street in your town. Youd grab a bat or a knife and use it on them?

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  • [quote][b]Posted by:[/b] car15 [quote][b]Posted by:[/b] Quest is back [quote][b]Posted by:[/b] darthnilhilus97 So in other words you gave into a dick. Well done OP.[/quote] And somehow he feels proud. Weird huh? It's almost like the challenges he faced and conquered built self esteem.[/quote] What? No. If he conquered the bully, he wouldn't have fundamentally changed himself because someone picked on him. He would have stood up to the bully, sure, but he would also have stayed true to who he was rather than playing sports just because some guy made him feel inferior for not playing sports. He gave in. Plain and simple. This is all, of course, assuming that the OP was purely motivated to enact such a drastic lifestyle change because of one bully, which seems unlikely. I'm sure there were other factors at play. You don't have to play sports to become a formidable individual. You don't have to stop playing video games either. (Since this is Bungie.net, though, I'm willing to bet OP never stopped playing video games. He's probably just too scared to admit it publicly.) Be yourself, don't let people give you a hard time about it. Bam. Confidence. That's literally all you need. Working out is good because it's healthy and it makes you physically stronger. It's got nothing to do with confidence. (It will boost self-esteem in the short term, but that's different.) This thread isn't even about working out but since it got so much attention earlier, I felt like addressing it here. Confidence. You don't need to cave to a bully. You don't need to become the bully. OP gave into a dick probably because he figured, "Well, I'm getting picked on and this other guy isn't, so let me be just like this other guy and I guess people will stop picking on me."[/quote] In other words OP is a little -blam!-.

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  • [quote][b]Posted by:[/b] DatDudeBV [quote][b]Posted by:[/b] General Dripik If I ever saw one again I'd beat them within an inch of their life. [/quote] Sure ya would champ. [/quote]Be condescending all you want lol. I don't care what I would have to hit them with I would honestly do it for what they have done to me. Like the OP they did change me over time...back then I was too nice to fight back. I should of done it back then and I hate myself for not doing it. Of course I'd do it now if I saw them.

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  • [quote][b]Posted by:[/b] Garem [quote][b]Posted by:[/b] DatDudeBV and I have no sympathy for weak willed people who kill themselves. They are pathetic and selfish. [/quote] So if someone suffers through four years of daily physical and psychological torture, then finally snaps, they're weak? Someone who put up with a bully who constantly tormented them for sparse amusement is selfish? You need to rethink your definitions.[/quote] If someone lets something happen constantly for four years, I'd place part of the blame on them. They should take the initiative somewhere along the line to try and solve their problem, whether that be getting help from an authority figure or doing something themselves.

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