Give me your advice on how to woo a woman.
Serious responses only please.
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#Offtopic
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Idk exist
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I try and woo women by doing literally nothing and hoping they approach me! (Has only worked once in the past 6 years)
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Another bit about rejection, it’s okay bro, they say a lot of other fish are out there, what they don’t say specifically is there is always a bigger fish out there that is superior to the one who sundered your heart and head. Don’t lose hope if they wreck ya it’s because your real apple of your eye is coming in close and the previous experience was so you’d be ready for “your one!”, also BE THE ONE! Don’t just look for the one, BE THE ONE!
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You need to be willing to give it everything you s for and nothing all the same as to know exactly what you want, and have the heart to give up on ever giving it. That’s my trick for manifestation, I had no clue how strong that thing is either, manifestation. You’ll be shocked if you’re open to trying that method, most important thing is being a man who knows what they want and need though and holding higher standards THAT YOU YOURSELF DESERVE. You need to pick a ride or die woman who isn’t messing around because if it’s not for eternity you will be disappointed every time at every breakup. WORK ON YOURSELF AND BE A MAN OF ACTION WITH GOALS YOU ACHIEVE! Most importantly, get therapy and fix all your crap and have an amazing, supportive, inspiring, empowering friend group of REAL people who are incredibly strong, smart, and loving fully. You don’t want to surround yourself with losers and be a weaker man, because it all starts with you as an individual and then becomes what you have to offer as all your value is linked to your effectiveness AS A MAN WITH PURPOSE. Nothing breeds more attraction than a guy who will do whatever it takes to achieve what he yearns for, especially if he’s honorable, INSANELY HUMBLE DONT EVEN TRY A RELATIONSHIP IF YOU THINK YOU HAVE ALL THE ANSWERS AND ALWAYS ARE RIGHT YOULL BECOME MORE BITTER QUICKLY, and put her first because she is the one. If she isn’t the one and you have to play the field don’t be scared of learning from that and always be safe. Never ever fight for someone you’d never willingly die for. The name of the game with a real relationship and all of them is “Legacy.” If your friends, and especially your partner are losers and chumps who won’t be brutally sobbed over when they are gone who keep this world a better, progressing, happier, stronger, greater place, you gotta raise your bar. It’s all about value that you serve to everyone and everything when you break it down, and if you cannot be humble, respectful, empathetic, incredibly patient, FORGIVING, and sacrifice and compromise all the time for them it means they’re not worth it and you’ve got to try harder starting from square 1 as I said initially, brother. It’s a lot, I’m sorry it’s jumbled, but this is what it takes and what you need to understand to really make it happen. Also get some thick skin and a sense of humor without being a jerk, but if you’re gonna be a jerk do that in taste and respect the boundaries ALWAYS. No means no, also if you know you can be funny and thoughtful DO IT!
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SwatDid you miss me? - old
Don’t mention your spoon collection. [spoiler]Hoping someone understands this reference [/spoiler] -
2 RepliesIdk bro just lock in?
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According to my closest friends I have been openly hit on on several occasions and was completely oblivious to it...so as an aging but happy bachelor... DON'T BE OBLIVIOUS.... Pay attention to the little things conversation small moments..it will show you care because if you don't ....it is an easy signal to see how far a relationship can go especially at the start... And it goes for both parties..... A long-term relationship involves knowing each other especially a serious relationship... And I'm not talking about research that's creepy... just experience life together and you will learn together and those shared things build a bond The rest is time
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Edited by Dave.: 11/30/2025 4:46:47 PMI mean it just takes time. Some people might be into you some won’t be into you. Just gotta throw yourself out there enough times and someone gonna catch you eventually, even if you’re bruised and bloodied from previous jumps. Take all relationships very seriously, and don’t hide who you are, cause if they find out you’re not the person they thought you were, they won’t want to be with you. Be honest with yourself, and be honest with them. Also take care of yourself. Nobody wants to be with someone who doesn’t love themself.
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Be yourself Show interest Use humor (that what worked for me) Find shared interests.
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Spend less time here...
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eeriearcadeAlright, alright, alright. - old
“Be yourself.” -
Edited by Speaker: 11/29/2025 5:03:48 AM[quote]Serious responses only please.[/quote] You're no fun. Do what you do well, know who you are, be ok with yourself. Cant be ok with anyone else if you aren't right with yourself. Be yourself.
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Can I ask what location we are talking about? I am in central America, and courting is significantly different here.
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Blood sacrifice. Works every time as long as you don’t get caught!
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4 RepliesBe yourself. Not because it is in itself attractive but because if/when you do attract someone, there won't be any false expectations. Less effective short term but greater long term benefits.
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A particular woman or women in general? In either case, you should be comfortable with yourself before seeking companionship. Otherwise, you’re inviting instability into a relationship & that’s not good for anyone.
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Edited by Stalkholm: 11/29/2025 12:27:16 AMBe interesting, be funny, act confident. Women love people who can make them laugh, make them smile, make them think. Also, don't go overboard, play it cool. Not distant necessarily, but cool. Be chill, like the outcome doesn't matter to you, you're just enjoying the moment. But mostly, be funny and interesting. You want to be someone who's fun to be around, someone she looks forward to spending time with, someone who's opinions and thoughts she wants to hear. Edit: Oh, and make a point of dressing nice and smelling nice, grooming goes a long way! Edit 2: Learn about her hobbies, so that the two of you have something to talk about.