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3/1/2005 4:55:32 AM
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What do you look for?

What qualities do you want in a boyfriend/girlfriend/whatever? And watch it, I'm in a combination of angsty-death mode and "gahh she rejected me!" mode. So ph34r.
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  • [quote][b]Posted by:[/b] Casey [quote][b]Posted by:[/b] pudgypenquin [quote][b]Posted by:[/b] kewlkat love and passion destroy dreams and the human ability to be the greatest[/quote] My view exactly. My firends are alway bugging me about girls, a issue I am srill logically working through (as I do with most things), and at least right now I am at the point where I have decided that lust, passion, and americanized "love" is nothing but a selfish craving. Not only that but the disastrous affects of teenage pregancy and other results of passion I have witnessed make have shifted my view of girls to one of suspician and scrutany.[/quote] This is why you control yourself until you're married to someone. It can wait, and it's still just as good when you're married. Plus, if your spouse also abstained until she married you, you have a nil chance of STDs. If she gets pregnant, it's okay because you're married and can now start a family.[/quote] Not to get in a religious discussion, but I actually agreed with you for a really long long long time. Waiting to get married. Finally, at 29, I was sick of waiting to get married to get it on, coz I waited for so long. I mean I probably could have dozens of notches on my belt by now if I wanted to... But, at 29, i have 2. My girlfriend uses contraception, and botjh of us have gotten tested and we're exclusive, so it's cool.
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  • well my girlfriend is near perfect coz she has a big butt and an ample bosom, small waist, flat stomach, thick thighs, big eyes, blond... and she doesn't like PDA- me too she doesn't like to blab all the details of everything to her friends... she can read my mind she plays piano, violin, sings, acts, writes, paints, speaks English, French, and American Sign Language she likes me a lot she is smart and she is around my age. Why are you asking this, anyway? Ben?
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  • Well of course but the problem with moderns society is that it trys to teach people that you don't have to wait. To do it now. That life is all about you. This is not true though. I personally believe that wisdom is the most valuable prize.
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  • [quote][b]Posted by:[/b] pudgypenquin [quote][b]Posted by:[/b] kewlkat love and passion destroy dreams and the human ability to be the greatest[/quote] My view exactly. My firends are alway bugging me about girls, a issue I am srill logically working through (as I do with most things), and at least right now I am at the point where I have decided that lust, passion, and americanized "love" is nothing but a selfish craving. Not only that but the disastrous affects of teenage pregancy and other results of passion I have witnessed make have shifted my view of girls to one of suspician and scrutany.[/quote] This is why you control yourself until you're married to someone. It can wait, and it's still just as good when you're married. Plus, if your spouse also abstained until she married you, you have a nil chance of STDs. If she gets pregnant, it's okay because you're married and can now start a family.
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  • read my first post
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  • *sigh* Damn infatuation.
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  • I have to say I always worry about what will happen if I do anything, but I think you may have gone too far. And dont worry that love/lust/attaraction is selfish. Think of it this way: You are meant to have feelings for certain people (be it the opposite sex or not) and so revel in it. Who cares if it is selfish. Just make sure you dont abuse (physically, mentally or emotionally) people along the way, and everything should be too bad. Oh and if you are careful you dont have to worry too much about unwanted pregnancies and STIs. Of course this is me talking with no experience what so ever, so feel free to ignore me. Oh and whats with all the clamidia references? [Edited on 3/2/2005 2:47:05 AM]
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  • Nah, I always think of the results [b] far [/b] before I do most anything, except post.
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  • wow you NEED to get laid but by a nice girl with no clamidia trust me from one genius to what seems to be another not everything requires logic so relax buy some rubbers and have some fun i know its difficult but sometimes being "human" is fun. [Edited on 3/1/2005 10:24:53 PM]
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  • [quote][b]Posted by:[/b] kewlkat love and passion destroy dreams and the human ability to be the greatest[/quote] My view exactly. My firends are alway bugging me about girls, a issue I am srill logically working through (as I do with most things), and at least right now I am at the point where I have decided that lust, passion, and americanized "love" is nothing but a selfish craving. Not only that but the disastrous affects of teenage pregancy and other results of passion I have witnessed make have shifted my view of girls to one of suspician and scrutany.
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  • [quote][b]Posted by:[/b] ObbiQuiet [quote][b]Posted by:[/b] fOrSaKeN evil [quote][b]Posted by:[/b] Casey -Excessive flirtiness (nothing bugs me more than when a girl flirts with me and then also with like 5 other guys...slut) -Talking about all the other things they've done with all the other guys they've been with...makes you feel like you're just getting a ride on the carousel [/quote] amen[/quote] It's funny those two things bother you.[/quote] Meh, we just have different tastes, I guess.
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  • fat men have boobs what about their mind?
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  • I have but one requirement. Boobs.
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  • [quote][b]Posted by:[/b] Kendoboy Or you could impress them with your spelling skills. Wow this kid must be such a pimp. [/quote] dephinatl33. chichs digg speLLorz!!1!
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  • [quote][b]Posted by:[/b] Superbxen 1st of lern how 2 spel betr now with that said the two easy ways to pick up a chick are 1 tell one of her friends (not a close one mind you) that you like her and make her promise not to tell of course she will let it slip then do something like have flowers sent to her house make sure that the flowers get there the same day as she is told (that way it seems like you did it because you were going to do it any way and you wont seem like a stalker) then ask her out. If this would make her think you were a wuss then do 2 find a new chicka because a chick who doesnt like romantics will give you [b]CLAMIDIA[/b][/quote] Superbxen for moderator!
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  • Or you could impress them with your spelling skills. Wow this kid must be such a pimp.
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  • 1st of lern how 2 spel betr now with that said the two easy ways to pick up a chick are 1 tell one of her friends (not a close one mind you) that you like her and make her promise not to tell of course she will let it slip then do something like have flowers sent to her house make sure that the flowers get there the same day as she is told (that way it seems like you did it because you were going to do it any way and you wont seem like a stalker) then ask her out. If this would make her think you were a wuss then do 2 find a new chicka because a chick who doesnt like romantics will give you [b]CLAMIDIA[/b]
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  • [quote][b]Posted by:[/b] ObbiQuiet [quote][b]Posted by:[/b] tex mex matt I'm having trouble with a girl right now, shes so confusing its not even funny, and we have been talking for like a year now and I still have no idea what shes thinking, so I have jsut recently given up.[/quote] Just ask her. Though there might be some sort of "dramatic" air that comes with asking for desires of intimacy, most people can just brush it off in a mature fashion. It won't be the end of the world. You won't stay up all night crying. You won't be laughed at publicly (more than you already are).[/quote] Actualy there might be less laughing.
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  • [quote][b]Posted by:[/b] tex mex matt I'm having trouble with a girl right now, shes so confusing its not even funny, and we have been talking for like a year now and I still have no idea what shes thinking, so I have jsut recently given up.[/quote] Just ask her. Though there might be some sort of "dramatic" air that comes with asking for desires of intimacy, most people can just brush it off in a mature fashion. It won't be the end of the world. You won't stay up all night crying. You won't be laughed at publicly (more than you already are).
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  • [quote][b]Posted by:[/b] Kendoboy It would be much worse if she liked you and you didnt respond.[/quote] I've been there. BOY have I been there. It sucks so much it ain't even funny.
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  • Umm does she smile at you? does she wave at you before you wave at her? if so ask her out you have nothing to loose. Ive been said no to plenty of times dont sweat it. It would be much worse if she liked you and you didnt respond.
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  • I'm having trouble with a girl right now, shes so confusing its not even funny, and we have been talking for like a year now and I still have no idea what shes thinking, so I have jsut recently given up.
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  • [quote][b]Posted by:[/b] fOrSaKeN evil [quote][b]Posted by:[/b] Casey -Excessive flirtiness (nothing bugs me more than when a girl flirts with me and then also with like 5 other guys...slut) -Talking about all the other things they've done with all the other guys they've been with...makes you feel like you're just getting a ride on the carousel [/quote] amen[/quote] It's funny those two things bother you.
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  • [quote][b]Posted by:[/b] Casey The very first thing I look for in a girl is her face. To me, the face is much more important than the body. I'd rather have a girl with an attractive face and so-so body than one with a so-so face and an attractive body. I don't care what color her eyes are, as long as I can gaze in them. Personality-wise, I look for someone who's intelligent, friendly, rarely uses the word "cute," doesn't try to bring herself down ("I'm fat!"), doesn't fish for compliments, won't act stupid in front of guys so that she gets attention, has a good sense of humor and can laugh at a dirty joke every once in a while, and, most importantly, someone who is HERSELF. Yeah, when I get a girfriend, it's because I was lucky enough to find someone that has those personality traits. There's only one girl that I honestly can say I know of like this in my school, and I've already gone out with her. For some reason, I'm also kind of turned on by shy girls. I guess it's because eventually you'll get them to open up to you and it makes you feel like you've really accomplished something, and then you like her even more. My biggest turn-offs in girls are: -Thinking they're "fat" when they're not -Quoting rap at any time -General vapidity -Acting like a moron in front of boys in the hopes that it gets them attention -Excessive flirtiness (nothing bugs me more than when a girl flirts with me and then also with like 5 other guys...slut) -Talking about all the other things they've done with all the other guys they've been with...makes you feel like you're just getting a ride on the carousel -Dressing like a skank to get attention -Excessive profanity Yaaaaaaaay![/quote] Im sorry but I think with all of those criteria your looking for a man.
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  • all i want is someone who i can love for whom they are.
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  • [quote][b]Posted by:[/b] Casey -Excessive flirtiness (nothing bugs me more than when a girl flirts with me and then also with like 5 other guys...slut) -Talking about all the other things they've done with all the other guys they've been with...makes you feel like you're just getting a ride on the carousel [/quote] amen
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