I know a lot of ppl with job and families and they still can find ppl with similar free time and raid. All those comments are proved wrong by years of raiding by ppl with the more various real life problems and duties

Honestly I've never done a raid before. Sort of joking on the other aspects of my comment.

Start with destiny. Raiding if well designed is by far the challenge that left me the greater sense of accomplishment. It's not unfair, it's not easy, it's something you enjoy with you friends (they will become friends while raiding even if you don't know them) and when you finally beat that challenge it's unbeatable experience. Well worth the "trouble" of find/create a static