[quote][b]Posted by:[/b] Griffin Spades Rabid Gnome, in me opinion is don't listen to anyone else from this point on cause every situation is different and that's something you and her gota work out and figure out, people mean good but man sometimes they forget relationships arent a cookie cutter thing.[/quote] Correct. Part of life is being able to make a decision without the help of others. You'll often find that your own ideas are more fitting to your situation and disposition than any advice anyone else could possibly give you.