That is a mess of s situation that you are in Rabid. It sucks that your girl made such a bad decision.
There are a few questions you have to ask yourself....
1.) If you did break up how much time did you put into the relationship and are you willing to give it up now?
2.) Is it worth it to stay with her with the doubt in your mind of weither or not she would do it again. (Because unless you feel you can totally put it behind you it will eat you up inside)
3.) Can you ever [i] really [/i] trust her again?
4.) Do you chose believe and validate whatever ridicilous reason she gives you for her actions?
In the end it isn't about her its about you... its YOUR decision if you want to stay around or not. Be SELFISH in your thoughts because hers were totally selfish when she decided to cheat. No one made her to it, she did it on her own and she can not blame this on you.
Love is tricky sometimes because it clouds your head, try to think clearly about it and honestly.
The most important thing in all of this is that you are real with yourself. All things in life happen for a reason and through the bad times you learn lessons. Thats what makes you the person that you are. Learn something from this, and take it with you in life. Call it women's intuition or whatever you want but there is a lesson to be learned in all of this and I just hope for your sake you find that. You can PM me if you want to talk about it further.
I wish you luck Rabid, I hope that this works out the best way it can for your sake.
Edit: Dang you guys are quick. I guess this means nothing now.
[Edited on 3/23/2005 6:47:53 AM]
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