[quote][b]Posted by:[/b] oaklandp8ntbalr it's all confidence. You only get confidence by trusting yourself. You can't trust yourself if you aren't happy with yourself. Go look in the mirror. Are you happy with the person you are? Are you comfortable with your appearance? Knowing this forum, you probably are not. So go do something about it. Dress differently. Pick a sport. Play the guitar. Work out.[/quote] What does appearance have to do with playing the guitar?