i'm not too good with words.
or sentences.
or logic.
but i can still say/type stuff. i like stuff. especially stuff which shows that i haven't just passed this off "just another event." sometimes i feel my condolences aren't enough, and i end up writing a sappy, idealistic piece of emotionally driven stupidity. that's what's about to happen here. excuse me, but i'm just venting a few thoughts of my own.
you know when your child was alive? when he looked around? you and ms. madness reborn were there for him. in the two months he lived, he may not have seen much, or understood much; but of what he did, he saw you and ms. madness reborn. delving into what he could or would have said had he possessed the ability to is another matter entirely, but even if he couldn't show it, he knew that he wasn't alone. he didn't leave helpless.
he's gone. but remember that before he left, he had the privilege of living under the care of two of the best parents he could have possibly had.
if you ever need to vent, my pm box is always open. i don't know what i'll say, or even if i'll say anything good. but i'll be listening for sure; and if you'll excuse a bit of self judgement, i believe that's more important than anything else.
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I think you have the best reply in this thread so far. No one has said anything better to numb the pain. I've lost pets but I've never lost a child, so I can't even imagine what the OP must be going through right now.
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Goji, you are seriously so freaking cool
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i'm like legitimately 3cold *shivers*
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This is so much better than what I was going to say (which came down to "my condolences.")
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i originally said that, but being the kind of guy i am i can't stop shoving my views in everyone's faces