I hope if I ever have kids they get excited about Halloween. Granted for that to happen I'd have to have a wife
[spoiler]and since the day any girl wants to date me is the day pigs sprout horns and wings then fly away, I'm screwed[/spoiler]
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Quit being so negative. It's easier than you think; don't freak out about it.
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Except I know none of the girls that know me would date be cause they think I'm like a little brother (mega friendzoned), not their type, they think I'm a creepy little SOB (I've been called this quite a few times for some reason) or they just don't like me in general.
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Be casual. Treat them like friends. Be nice, but not too nice. If you're truly in the friend zone, then act like a dick. Ignore texts when you get them and stuff like that. They will begin to seek your attention.
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[quote]Be casual. Treat them like friends. Be nice, but not too nice.[/quote] This is hard for me because I don't have very many friends [quote]If you're truly in the friend zone, then act like a dick. Ignore texts when you get them and stuff like that. They will begin to seek your attention.[/quote] This I know for a fact won't work because I'm usually texting them and they ignore me for a few hours
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Making friends is easy. Just be friendly. And girls never send you a text? Not even a meme?
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[quote]Making friends is easy.[/quote] Not if you're as shy and introverted as me [quote]Just be friendly. And girls never send you a text? Not even a meme?[/quote] No that's usually me
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I used to be shy. If you want friends, it really is as easy as simply being friendly. And you said [u]usually[/u]. Want to turn things around? The next time a girl sends you anything, ignore em for a few hours.
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The only reason I said usually is because I tried to start a meme off and it failed miserably
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Ok, ok. The first thing we have to fix is your attitude. You can't be a self proclaimed love doctor if you have no confidence. If a girl doesn't respond right away, don't see it as a failure. There's a 99% chance that you're over-analyzing the situation. If she responds to you at all, that means she doesn't hate you. If you consistently be nice whenever you do speak with her, she'll talk to you more often. Ask questions, let her talk about herself. Once she does send you a text message to initiate a conversation, ignore it. She'll start trying to initiate conversations more often. From there, it's cake. It's a process. Each step takes a while to implement. If a conversation isn't 100% perfect in your eyes, it's likely that you're over-analyzing it (I still struggle with that sort of problem today). Imagine you had that same conversation with your friend. Let's say your friend didn't respond to his text right away, maybe waited a couple hours. You wouldn't be distraught. Think about crushes in the same way, in that sense. Sorry about the rant. I'm not an expert in these things, either. Every girl is different.
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Most of my friends are girls btw
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Make your own thread!!!
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About what
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Cry baby girl problems.
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