So a old friend of mine just came back to my highschool. She was far away in a boarding school because she attempted suicide a few times. She just got back after 15 months away because of some complication there. I only just found out that she is back at my school an hour ago when she surprise hugged me in the hall, so I do not know much. The problem is, at the start of this school year I decided to myself that I was going to separate all negative influences in my life. I have stayed committed to that all year. I don't want to hurt her just when she gets back but I am afraid she will only be a negative influence on me. She was a good friend before and she might still be but... It has been a long time. What do fludz?
Plz post why you think what you think.
EDIT: I have decided to give her a chance. But it turns out she is really, really into me. Now the problem is that I already have 2 other girls I am interested in. It would only be one girl but she lives far away and we decided that we should get experience from relationships that don't work out before we have our own. (We plan on getting together after high school is over [Yes I know it is very optimistic] but if you don't understand it is very, very early and it what I just said does not have anything to do with this girl). So it would be fine if it was only that girl but, there is another girl at my high school i'm kinda into. We started getting close from a bet ([url=http://www.bungie.net/7_so-I-have-this-bet-on-with-a-cheerleader/en/Forum/Post?id=63343574&path=1]for reference[/url]) and we have been going good. We have not started dating but we are close.
I used to be kinda interested in the girl I guess but it has been 15 months. I do not want to hurt her feelings but... I am not sure if I want to go into one sided relationship like that.
Tl;dr Bitch came back from being at bitch school for 15 months, me and bitch friends again, now bitch want the D, wat do?
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Edited by Horseman of War: 2/7/2014 8:32:36 PMTo tell you the truth I've grown up with zero female childhood friends. I had those two (I would say three but we lost contact) friends I'd give the world for, and my brothers... all male. I dated and got engaged to Snappy McEmotionpants, and cut it off soon after. I have no idea how I should expect to see women act. Confidence has worked excellent since then, but I... should probably read the OP. -- I don't know. Just saw a romance flick for whatever reason and that would have me tell you to help her become the positive influence in your life instead of trying to push her away... but hey, what do I know? I really have no idea what I'm talking about.