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I have been married for almost 11 years now and we have 2 kids. Go get a drink and sit down/buckle up for this. Give up. Yup, you read that right. Do your thing and just be you always. If a girl wants more, she will let you know and more will happen. We do not control this, they do. When she finds you, understand that everything is going to be wonderful and then you will get married and it will change. Then you get the real her. Fighting is normal, it provides growth between you. So learn to communicate and not hold a grudge. Involve a marriage counselor when you need an outside mediator. DO NOT INVOLVE YOUR FAMILIES!!!! EVER!!! Take the Imago Dialogue course. It is hilarious how moronic it sounds but it works. Never buy flowers or jewelry as an apology. Buy her something sweet like chocolate or cake and a card. Kids will both ruin your lives and be the best thing to ever happen to you. There is so much more, but hit me up if you want to hear it.
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    [quote]I have been married for almost 11 years now and we have 2 kids. Go get a drink and sit down/buckle up for this. Give up. Yup, you read that right. Do your thing and just be you always. If a girl wants more, she will let you know and more will happen. We do not control this, they do. When she finds you, understand that everything is going to be wonderful and then you will get married and it will change. Then you get the real her. Fighting is normal, it provides growth between you. So learn to communicate and not hold a grudge. Involve a marriage counselor when you need an outside mediator. DO NOT INVOLVE YOUR FAMILIES!!!! EVER!!! Take the Imago Dialogue course. It is hilarious how moronic it sounds but it works. Never buy flowers or jewelry as an apology. Buy her something sweet like chocolate or cake and a card. Kids will both ruin your lives and be the best thing to ever happen to you. There is so much more, but hit me up if you want to hear it.[/quote] faxs

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  • The "give up" part is pretty accurate. I'm not in a relationship of any kind right now, but the ones I did have that were pretty nice happened when I never intended it from the get go. Never sought them out, and started from them initiating it. I feel like a big issue with how things are set up these days is too few people start relationships as the most simplest of them all, a friendship. If it turns into something more, fantastic, but even if it doesn't you still have a great friend, yeah?

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    There is a whole lot of Truth in what you just said.

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  • [quote]I have been married for almost 11 years now and we have 2 kids. Go get a drink and sit down/buckle up for this. Give up. Yup, you read that right. Do your thing and just be you always. If a girl wants more, she will let you know and more will happen. We do not control this, they do. When she finds you, understand that everything is going to be wonderful and then you will get married and it will change. Then you get the real her. Fighting is normal, it provides growth between you. So learn to communicate and not hold a grudge. Involve a marriage counselor when you need an outside mediator. DO NOT INVOLVE YOUR FAMILIES!!!! EVER!!! Take the Imago Dialogue course. It is hilarious how moronic it sounds but it works. Never buy flowers or jewelry as an apology. Buy her something sweet like chocolate or cake and a card. Kids will both ruin your lives and be the best thing to ever happen to you. There is so much more, but hit me up if you want to hear it.[/quote] Can’t argue with any of that..

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  • You make it sound like so much fun... yay.

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    So yeah, another thing to be aware of is the fact that no matter how hot your wife is, no matter how Wild, freaky, fun, awesome, perfect, is in the sack, you are still going to be looking at other chicks and you are still going to desire them. You will also go through periods of boredom with sleeping with your wife. It is normal, you just have to kind of ride with it. Sometimes it is just the fact that you are very focused on your career & because you are tired and you just don't have the energy level to do anything more then come home and turn on the TV. The first year is probably the hardest. In the next four years. Then the following five years or just as hard if not more so. Especially if you have kids, because then you have to work very hard to keep from running parallel lives. You have to work to be more than just mommy and daddy, like you needed another monkey wrench thrown into your relationship...... After the 10-year things get a bit easier, mainly because you know what is going to change and what is not so you know what to bother with and what not to bother with.

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    It is. You need to see the bad, that is what prepares you. The good is easy to handle, it requires no effort, it is the bad that that requires you to be a Beast!

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  • And I require you to get a 6-pack abs boi. [spoiler]Put those beers down you son of uh gun.[/spoiler]

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    Lol

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