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Edited by Titan, Eater Of Crayons: 1/29/2015 3:11:22 PM
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I need help with this situation

So I'm a love deprived teen who really needs some help. Just listen to this story. Im a junior in high school and i haven't had a girlfriend since 8th grade. Ive been looking for someone to share my love and comfort me. I found a girl that like at the begin of this year and she liked me but her parents would let us date. So i was forced to "move" on. One girl that I've liked since the summer started talking to me more and more then she got a bf and everything in my heart sank till November 1. On that date, we were coming home from a band competition, i asked her if she would sit with me. She said yea and sat with me. A few minutes into sitting together she sits in my lap and falls asleep on me. I was still awake so i was looking at her thinking it was pretty cute, then i soon fell asleep too. I woke up 30 minutes later to fine her awake, and she kissed me before i could realize where we are or what happen. After she stop kissing me she said she was very happy. I was very happy myself i got kissed. Fast forward to the next day i texted her if she was single or something and she said "i have a bf and I'm terribly sorry for what i did last night. I still like you but when ill single i will date you." My heart sank once again. Fast forward to present day, i take her home everyday and she about to be with her bf for 3 months. But she still likes me and now the other girl wants to stab her parents in the back and date behind their back. Im in a super pickle and i dont know what i should do. Please help me.

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  • Kill yourself.

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  • Start getting with them both dude. That's something that should happen in highschool and you'll definitely be legendary for it.

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    • Edited by Erkyo: 1/29/2015 4:33:29 PM
      This isn't really advice but more like words of encouragement. I was 17 I met this girl from a friend of mine. I was completely in awe when I first saw her. Only thing was, this girl was dating my friends older brother, who was complete asshole, go figure right. But everyday while hanging out with my friend she would come over to see my friends brother. We would chit chat, just small talk but at the same time I felt like she was flirting with me. So a few weeks later they broke up. I didn't see her again. So one night several weeks later I'm hanging with my other friend at his house, one who is like a brother to me. He's on the phone with some girl he met on AOL, BTW the year is like 1999 lol. I hear him say hey my friend Eric (that's me) just walked in I'm going have to go soon. Then he said my last name. The girl he just met was friends with the girl I had liked and haven't seen in weeks. And she was there with her now. I thought what are the odds!! So me and her exchanged numbers. We started dating, we dated for 6 weeks then I turned 18. She was 16. Her dad found out she was dated an 18 year old who drove and thought it was the end of the world. So she could no longer see me again. She was forbidden. We still tried to talk on the phone but since this was 1999 no one had cell phones so her dad blocked my number. But the last convo we had she said when she turns 18 she'll come find me. Then we lost contact again all together. Fast forward another year and a half I been seeing this other girl now I met at work. One day I was talking my little brother to school for the last week before summer break. I hear someone call my name, it was her. I couldn't believe my eyes again. She ran over to my car with a huge smile. She was like I have great news!! I asked what it was. She said that her dad didn't care anymore who she could date. I was confused, I said aren't still a few months away from turning 18? She said yes but it doesn't matter, I asked my dad he said I con now. She said, I even asked him if I could date that one guy who you forbidden me to see that works at papa johns, he said sure. I was thrilled but now confused. since I been seeing this other girl. Well long story short, the other turns out the girl I was seeing was cheating on me anyway. So I dumped her. Got with the girl I waited nearly two years for. We were together had a daughter and got married. So wait it out if you really like this girl or atleast try to. You just never know how the stars will line up my friend! EDIT for TL;DR readers. I waited almost two years for a girl, it was worth it, we dated, got married had a daughter together.

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      • The one who wants to date behind her parents back. The other is slutting around. Dating a guy and still promising herself to others and kissing others? WHORE. But in al seriousness, if she will do it once, she will do it again. And that means you'll never know if she's out kissing other guys and stuff like that while your dating. The other is willing to blow off her parents will to be with you. Her passion for you is that strong. Go with her.

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        • Become a loner. Grow a beard and wear bandanas.

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          • Love deprived my ass. But whatever, avoid first grill, talk to 2nd grill about talking to grill's parents about dating the grill ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)

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            • Edited by Void Walker: 1/29/2015 2:56:51 PM
              Welcome to life brother. I have problems too. nah but seriously, do the right thing. I know I can never truly be happy personally, until I find the right person. That chick you hooked up with, yea she ain't right man. She back stabbed her boyfriend. No matter how desperate you are, avoid her at all costs. I would go with the other chick who wants to date behind her parents back. That's hot! :)

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