[quote][b]Posted by:[/b] Helveck I don't like using the term verbal abuse. And I don't personally believe telling someone when they're being stupid (not ignorant) and that they're behaving idiotically in a tone that is slightly harsh, qualifies as verbal abuse. But to each their own. And as Kick said, the debate were having is pretty clearly illustrated. Show complete loving tolerance, show irritable intolerance, or ignore all together. I personally believe all 3 are useful, but it all depends on the circumstance. [/quote]Okay, yeah...it's rather difficult to be nice all the time especially when it comes to hard headed individuals. Like my terrible attempt to understand this thread says above...if it takes a little verbal abuse, I'm going to do it. There's only so much one can tolerate here or really anywhere. [Edited on 08.10.2012 3:43 PM PDT]