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Edited by Quantum: 3/7/2013 8:34:41 AM
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Iowa Lawmakers Propose Bill to Restrict Divorce;Worry It Makes Young Women More Promiscuous

[quote] http://www.radioiowa.com/2013/03/04/bill-would-forbid-parents-from-getting-no-fault-divorce/ http://whotv.com/2013/03/04/proposed-bill-making-divorce-harder/ A bill making it harder for couples to divorce was approved by an Iowa state House subcommittee on Monday, with a supporter of the legislation arguing it is necessary to prevent young girls from being more "promiscuous." The bill would make "no fault" divorces illegal in Iowa for parents of children who are minors. Now that it has been approved by the three-person subcommittee, it is ready for debate by the full state House Judiciary Committee, according to NBC 13 Des Moines. State Rep. Tedd Gassman (R), one of the seven Republican sponsors of the bill, said that the legislation is an attempt to keep families together -- something he believes is a pillar that will keep the country from falling apart. "I sincerely believe that the family is the foundation of this nation and this nation will go the direction of our families," said Gassman, according to Radio Iowa. "If our families break up, so will this nation." Gassman also suggested that divorce can affect children's behavior, specifically that it can make teenage girls more likely to engage in sexual activity than children of parents who are not divorced. Speaking about his granddaughter, whose parents recently divorced, Gassman said, "There's a 16-year-old girl in this whole mix now. Guess what? What are the possibilities of her being more promiscuous? What are the possibilities of all these other things surrounding her life that a 16-year-old girl, with hormones raging, can get herself into?" Opponents of the bill said they believe that the law may actually damage families further. State Rep. Marti Anderson (D-Des Moines) believes that her parents stayed together for too long and that eight years of tension between them still affects her and her siblings today. "The stay-together time was very, very damaging to my family and although we're all adults now, I'm not sure any of us have ever really gotten past that," said Anderson. All 50 states currently allow no-fault divorce. Betsey Stevenson, an economist at the University of Pennsylvania who has studied divorce, has found that such laws help women, leading to a drop in domestic violence. The Iowa legislation, according to NBC 13, would allow divorce only in cases of adultery, physical or sexual abuse, imprisonment or if one partner is missing for more than a year or the couple has lived apart for more than two years. [/quote] Posted with comment.

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  • Lol, when will politicians realize that you can't stop people from not loving each other via legislation? Divorce sucks, we know. Imposing law against it, however, won't solve anything. In fact, it will most likely ruin many more homes due to how many people won't want to be there. The solution comes FROM the home. As a society, we need to quit being so -blam!-ing liberal with how we marry each other. You marry the person you love and want to send the rest of your life with, not the next ten years.

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  • [quote]"I sincerely believe that the family is the foundation of this nation and this nation will go the direction of our families," said Gassman, according to Radio Iowa. "If our families break up, so will this nation."[/quote]I support frequent and easy divorce if it means we soon have an independent South once again.

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  • Idiocy. They would rather the children be in a household where the parents hate each other than in one where there is divorce. Just another case of a thinly disguised attempt to impose religious law.

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  • I find it ironic. Republicans/Conservatives like to throw around that Democrats/Liberals want to legislate everything and put a bill up to ban everything, and that they stand as a party of small government and personal responsibility; yet here they are looking to pass a law that legislates morality. How about instead of passing this bill, you just tell parents to actually act like parents?

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  • [quote] Speaking about his granddaughter, whose parents recently divorced, Gassman said, "There's a 16-year-old girl in this whole mix now. Guess what? What are the possibilities of her being more promiscuous? What are the possibilities of all these other things surrounding her life that a 16-year-old girl, with hormones raging, can get herself into?"[/quote] Aren't you supposed to find out "what are the possibilities" before you propose laws?

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  • I dont care what this article says. This law is definitely designed as an anti gold digger law. Its designed to protect men from getting screwed by what they call "promiscuous women".

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  • I don't see the problem. There should be fault in divorce, and that fault should be a big factor in determining asset and maintenance allocation. I could imagine nothing more humiliating than finding out a spouse is cheating, then being forced by law to pay the rent on the new place that spouse shares with a new romantic interest. I've seen that happen to a couple people I know, and I really feel that is extreme injustice.

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    • Edited by King Dutchy: 3/7/2013 8:51:51 PM
      This is stupid. If I start to lose interest in my wife over time and reach the point where I simply don't love her. I should be allowed to divorce her so she could find someone who can actually love her, it would be best for me and her as individuals.

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    • Not a bad idea but, like most things in government, poorly executed..

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      • Edited by HurtfulTurkey: 3/7/2013 3:27:55 PM
        Iowa? Seriously? All it does is require fault to be identified; to say it makes it more difficult is a bit disingenuous. If it's mutual, maybe they can both assign blame.

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      • I'd probably care if I lived in Iowa, but I just can't bring myself to give a damn.

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      • *sigh*

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      • This is stupid.. if both are consenting adults and they agree on the divorce it should happen. That is very unfair.

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      • It's not restricting divorce, it's making it harder.

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      • This is idiotic. What if two people mutually agree on a divorce? Bam they can't.

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      • How silly.

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        • I know the bill won't pass and that this is only the state legislature but the Republican brand is so sensitive to any socially regressive ideas that this just reinforces their broader image.

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