Know this, but am asking how to articulate such a persuasion, that like Confusius said, don't change the goals, change the action steps, and 'er methodology will come back to haunt 'er and everyone around 'er (this girl likes to play border patrol while drunk with enablers for money from governmental agencies and is narcissistic thru-out the whole process) and why the alternative solutions this user can propose to 'er are better and that one CAN have their cake and eat it too and have open-borders/no-wall AND not have their head chop'd. There's a lot of conflation and misrepresentation and gaslighting and projection from hi skool scorn (girl is bigoted against muzzies because one broke up with 'er years ago and buys into fear pr0n by people this user used to watch/like) and this girl dated a gentleman with similar views as this user a year and a half ago and hurt 'im, treated 'im like a cash machine and one-nighter and this boy would like this girl to disavow some of the rhetoric, actions, and associates this girl has been around and said/done and divulge some information, because there's some conspiracies around this girl this boy wants answers to, as to better help/heal 'er. It doesn't have to be 100 percent mind body sol heart loins whatever, this user and the girl know that ending and not forming relationships over political differences is a shtty immature thing to do and this user is willing more so now than ever to get out of the echochamber but this girl has been a hypocrite and done just the opposite and pretends to be 'trad' but is in actuality tantamount to a wh0re. As a former pres said, a friend and an ally is someone who agrees with yuh 80 percent of the time and disagrees 20 percent of the time and not a 20 percent traitor and Rdyrd Kpling said small miseries add up like bullets compared to a cannonball that wouldn't hurt as much. This user doesn't want to give up on/waste 79-80 bullets over one stupid cannonball of 20 percent disagreement and disapproval and this user even understands some of 'er erratic behavior (girls just wanna have fun/ shuldn't have put the pussi on the pedestal and wi are all human and have needs/vices). If anything this girl has by proxy helped this user grow a bit over some wacky preferences/prejudices this user held as principles as a defense mechanism over the years to avoid being with a girl that would lead to fighting and a garbage home life like this user's parents ended up and avoid such a fate, but the truth is everyone, every couple fights, as Bohb Mrly said, it's just finding the one's worth sufferin' for and this user is fine with fighting with this chyk sometime, at least it's over good reasons. But after giving this girl a large sum of money this user did NOT have for protection/a bulletproof vest, this girl only blew it on hurting others unecessarily and alcohol with dbag 'friends' across the planet and it was very upsetting to this user. This user tried contacting this girl again over the past 6 months but to no avail, but don't think it's due to ignorance/annoyance, think it's due to a change of POBox address/moving and/or busy schedules and inattentive email checking (unless attaching a large sum of money with the PrivNote, because this user doesn't have a printer to type up and mail the letters physically and the girl is suspicious of links like PrivNote links). This user is going to try mailing physical letters once the money is accumulated for a color-printer and re-send everything to 'er bestie galpal's POBox and try corresponding again, because the tracking on a card/letter months ago to 'er Box shows it was not picked up/known to be picked up and likely tosses in the trash by the post office because this user didn't give a return address and it said it only had 10 days left before return. This user has just forgotten/ignored the existence of this girl and 4 dozen YTubers this user used to follow religiously the past 2 months because this user got sick of seeing 'er face and getting upset at some photos the girl has been taking and saying and hanging with also to avoid having to keep adding emotional things newly to a new letter and focus on what this user has been wanting to convey first. The friend of 'er is older and a bit more mature so there's hope some correspondence can be had beyond a 'go team rahrah' speech this girl gave this user with this use'rs first letter at the beginning of the year. This user doesn't do social media garbage and prefers a more personal touch and clapbackculture has ruined so many lives so a little one sentence tweeht is NOT going to win over this girl as a letter or speech would have better chances of doing until physical contact can be made. This girl and this user could accomplish a ton together and really help people and hold 'er down like a stick from dripping wax on people while lifting this user out of the mud and both IcarusAND this stick can escape such a mad king and monster infested island once and for all but IcarusMAY already be sinking into the ocean and the value this user places on 'er and the relationship potential, personally and professionally, (there doesn't HAVE to be an overlap, it could be one or the other this user will take what 'e can get) outweighs the risk of potential drawbacks of incompatible views and getting into fights with some of 'er friends this user finds unsavory. They just want 'er to be apart of a different tribal machine as another cog and has been drawn and quartered between many people and ideas and the worst thing this user can do is pull on the remaining limb towards what this user believes is best for 'er and instead wants 'er to be 'erself, the first and one and only NOT 'the next' someone else lest this girl end up in a circlejrk of using and being used, as one A m a n d a R a c h w i t z at A n a r c h a p u l c o 2 0 1 8 said, 'hurt people hurt people' and DocJBP, sort one's self out first before others. Now there's a bit of a chikn n the egg scenario paradox here with these letters, are they working on someone else before this user OR this user working on this user's self, coherence and sociability possibly while (or not, since they haven't reached their destination and this girl likely has no clue) offering a helping hand to this girl? It's kind of a combo of both, because it'd be a pretty reciprocal relationship, the potential is there to be. /wall of text bigger than anything the presidential puppet of bad allies in the fight against the n W o can imagine