Dude I hear you, so I like the idea of matchmaking. Between the kids and working (chef) I jump on at some odd times, for odd lengths of time. Because of this it has become quite difficult getting five people together who are even on at the same time I am. I have been fortunate to have met some really cool people here, and did so all in the hopes of doing the raids but still have the same problems.. To date I've only done VOG and only once I might add.. Very sad.