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4/21/2015 3:28:45 AM
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Guys right now I'm sad and..
I just don't know what to do. My girlfriend left. If I have any advice. Don't give anyone the opportunity to waste your time twice. She broke my heart before and cheated on me. But a year after that. We got to talking and I decided to give her a second chance.. Worst mistake of my life. Here I am.. Laying down just unhappy. I have had a constant pain in my chest. I just don't know what I should do. But I know she doesn't want me for sure. I guess I just have to let go..
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#OffTopic
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Stop being a scrub and wasting our time with your love life lol grow a pair and find another. Don't you have a dad or something?
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Block her in every way possible and try to move on. Any contact with her will make things worse. Hope you're feeling better, bro :(
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Kill em all
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My main advice is what you have already said...do not go back to her again. As for moving forward...I don't know if I have any advice that would be useful. Sorry for obviously not helping at all....
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1 ReplySometimes in life it is more difficult and painful to move pass an bad experience, but we do and we must move pass it. It will be hard and painful, but as time passes the hardship lessens and the pain dulls and when we look back on those events, we realize that we are better off now and are a better person. I've had my heart broken on a few occasion including one that turned my world completely upside down and still pains me today whenever I stop and think about certain things from my past - even after 25ish years. Yes, I'm an old fart... But if that relationship didn't end when it did, I would never have met and feel in love with the woman, who would became my wife and who blessed me with a beautiful daughter. Without sounding too cliche, but keep yourself active. Talk to someone who you can trust to give you some sound advice, or who can just sit with an open ear and closed mouth. Take everything in stride - some days will be better than others and some days will feel as if the world is bearing it's anger directly at you. Find something to keep you active, especially early on - whether it's something minimal as reading a book or as big as an weekend excursion. I'm sure I can throw a hundred more cliches towards you, but the bottom line is allow yourself time to come to terms and except that you made the right decision and based on what your wrote - I think you made the right call. I wish you the best of luck. Peace my brother.
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Go out dont get drunk stay busy. -blam!- other bitches work destroy in iron banner. It will take time so start making friends with.
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1 ReplyYou need to get past that...because no âss is worth thinking that much about...I always say. -40 Year Old Virgin
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Dude. Not to be mean. Be a man get over it. Plenty of fish in the sea. PLENTY
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Backhand that bitch
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1 ReplyThrow watermelons at her until she dies.
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Guys I have a problem! I have a rash! It itches like crazy and I don't know what to do! She said she loved me but now all I'm left with is this constant irritation! Will I ever get over this? Has anyone else on here gone through what I'm going through? Oh wait, this is a public forum! Oops!
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Past is past it's a experience it'll shape your future but it shouldn't dictate it you've been given freedom again reflect on it and either screw a few people or wait till you see a diamond in the rough all paths will lead to the correct end just roll with it.
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1 ReplyGrow some balls and fek some other girls... And talk to friends/family, not on destiny forum... lol. 😕
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Frosteh I cri everytim
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Just play destiny
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Go out. Buy a few beers. Hang with SINGLE friends. KILL Crota.
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Yeah that's it, just let go in time more fishes will swim up the pond.
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Yeah I found out a long time ago that second chances usually end up hurting me a second time. Yeah just let go and move on. If you'd like to talk to someone who will listen and have a 360 or xbone then let me know. I'd like to help because I've been there and it gets better after letting go
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2 RepliesYou got some buddies? Get them together and get active. Stay away from activities that are slow paced or things that frustrate normally. Try: Find a indoor rock climbing park Go paint balling Race go carts Bowling/pool(sometimes at the same place) Putt putt golf Pick up basket ball game(any sport really) Amusement park(if you got one near) Mountain/trail riding Go to a concert(like heavy metal...start a pit) Surf/snow board/ski (x games shit) Find a comic con or gaming event Frisbee golf White water rafting The baja 1000
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1 ReplySounds like you need some *takes off sunglasses* Super Good Advice! YEAAAHHHH!
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If sadness manifests in physical symptoms that are hard to deal with, such as an upset stomach, try taking a Zantac or other mild over the counter antacid. Make sure it's safe for you to do so obviously, depending on your medical history. Also, there is a breathing excercise that works great: Breath in deep and try to fill your lungs in exactly four seconds. Then exhale and try to exhale in exactly four seconds. Repeat 3 times. In for 4, out for 4, in for 4, out for 4, in for 4, out for 4. Keep your eyes open when you do this. As far as the emotional side, try and meet new people and be as social as possible. Just playfully flirt whenever you can, not to try and get a date or anything, but just to remind yourself that there are other girls out there and that this breakup isn't the end of your dating life. Be really nice to other people, it will help put you in a cheerier mood. Help a lady with her groceries or just randomly compliment strangers and try to make people around you smile. You'll find yourself smiling more too. These things sound simple, but the real thing that's going to help is the passage of time, and passing the time being friendly and positive will help a lot as opposed to passing the time ruminating and being sad. I hope you feel better soon man.
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9 RepliesEdited by GrEaSYmUFFiN325: 4/22/2015 2:52:45 AMHere's some super good advice, Just have patience and time and the right one will come. Truth is, Fate'll bringer around and when she does, make a joke like "It looks like a black hammer". Always an icebreaker. If that doesn't work there's always plan C. Pick her up in a Monte Carlo.
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Go get some strange, it will perk you up. Focus on makin money and go out and have some fun. Chicks dig a man that have their act together and can make them laugh. Make them work for you, and they will never leave! Seriously, even after you kick em to the curb, they will always love you if you make them work to get you. Your the prize, not her, never forget that, chicks are a dime a dozen. Most are dumb as hell and cant do much of anything for themself. Dont play captain save a hoe, and make sure they respect you and are imbarised to admit their faults to you. Every girl is a learning experience, above all, never forget what you learned from each and every one. Every one of them are crazy also, you just have to figure out what kind of crazy they are.
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You shouldn't be unhappy and at the end of the day she cheated on you on the first place. It just shows that she can do it anytime she wants. Move on because obviously you deserved someone better that slut.
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Edited by Grant Shepherd: 5/2/2015 12:24:33 AMIs this one of those gamer nerd relationships where you're dating someone from across the country who you'll never meet and know what the other person looks like? If so then never do it again. That's not the right kind of dating experience and it's also weird
