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4/9/2015 1:09:32 AM
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Porn to men in relationships.
Let's be honest we as guys have watched, heard of, accidently stumbled upon, or deliberately masturbated to [i]porn.[/i] And being in a relationship is no acception. I've heard plenty of stories of women who have known their SOs for years and then catching them watching [i]porn.[/i]
What do you do?
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12 RepliesI'm a woman.... And partake in porn, I don't see what's wrong with alone time. I don't see what's so wrong about partaking porn with significant other.... Women and men are seksi especially pornstars why is it viewed so bad? Why must we ask ourselves if it's cheating? Cheating would be physically being involved with another human being... But ganking off to some quality porn is perfectly fine.
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2 RepliesWhen I was last in a relationship I seldom went without sex for more than a few days so I didn't jack off. It's something I don't really do anyway. Haven't watched porn in years, that shit's bad for you.
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9 RepliesI am afraid that I can't relate to (or in some cases, understand) the poll selections.
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What about those couples that watch porn together, as a part of their sex life? It's a great way for foreplay, and also for getting ideas for the bedroom! I don't believe there is anything wrong with watching porn as long as both people know that one or both of them view it and everything is out in the open. It's when someone is hiding it and acting sneaky when the problems arise.
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Me andy girl watch it together. Or alone. It doesn't matter. It helps me rub one out real quick since my girl is not always on front of me to be my personal phuck doll
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2 RepliesThe sex-negativity is strong in this one.
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Sometimes you want to dine-in, other times you just want to go through the drive-thru. Sometimes you want to go to the movies, other times you want fall asleep to netflix. Sometimes you want an experience, other times you just want to get the the point and move on.
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2 RepliesHow is that in any way cheating on someone?
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2 RepliesAny man who watches Porn and is married is not a man in my eyes.
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2 RepliesBeing a fairly serious Christian, I'm not in the whole idea that porn is okay. However I wouldnt ever go towards overtly telling anyone to stop doing porn unless we've been buds and I want to see them live morally. I can't prove that porn is bad for all relationships, and I can't prove its always addictive, but those are my thoughts on it. I have been using porn myself, but I've been trying to stop for the past two years. Most I have gone is about a week and a half pure. If anyone wants to talk to me about it I'm open.
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Edited by Christea: 4/10/2015 1:08:06 AMAyyy. Watching porn isn't cheating, it's not as if we're physically touching another person, just ourselves. And there's nothing wrong with porn, it's a source to please ourselves when the significant other isn't in the mood :)
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Exception.
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3 RepliesIf you have a boyfriend/girlfriend you have sexual relations with, or a husband/wife, you shouldn't need to watch porn. Unless you're watching it together, if that's your kind of thing. If you're single, it doesn't really matter
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4 RepliesI watch porn because I'm too young for sex. Porn is nice but I also do it to girls' Instagram pics.
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3 RepliesDoes anybody honestly consider watching porn cheating?
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I partook in a survey a while ago looking into the role of pornography and relationships. Not sure if/when/where it'll be published, though. Interesting subject to actually look into, at any rate.
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when i first met my girlfriend she had a problem with me watching it and arguemnts occured, eventually she gave in and come round to my way of thinking. we now watch it togoether from time to time ;P
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5 RepliesHow is masturbation cheating on her?
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3 RepliesKind of rigged answers there It's under the assumption that porn is cheating Personally I can't imagine someone unless I'm emotionally attached to them (Demisexual) So porn is useless unless im connected with someone and then it's just more about finding what matches "us" I'm a fairly sexual person so most girls can't handle it and I keep it to myself instead of telling her every single time That would be like "Good morning (;" "Hey there (;" "Afternoon (;" "What's up(;?" "Good evening (;" "What are you doing tonight (;?" And if we're actually hanging out its worse It would make her feel like a slab of meat So porn just helps me regulate
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14 RepliesI'm sorry, how is watching porn cheating? Personally, I don't care if he watches porn. I'm perfectly fine with that. It's not that he's actually having sex with someone else so why make such a big deal out of it.
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I don't think she cares if I watch porn. I mostly look at her videos and pictures anyway.
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1 ReplySee, with my lovers and I, we watch it together...
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Porn is kind of a turn off. Like why would I get turned on by a woman that's had more useage than my toaster? It's just not attractive looking at a woman and thinking 'she's been screwed by so many guys that she can't name them all'
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I don't think it's cheating or bad. I just can't bring myself to get turned on by a chick who will sleep with anyone as long as she gets paid. Haha
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If any of you think that jerking off and watching porn is all over after you get into a relationship you are insane. And that goes for the ladies too.
