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12/4/2012 2:02:58 AM
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Ugly people get raised fundamentally different
When you grew up your parents could foresee your beta destiny so because they loved you so much that they didn't want you to hurt so they told you all these half-lies about equality and beauty is on the inside and America and this and that and that is what -blam!- you up insecurity wise.
Sooner or later you had to wake up and it hurt more than ever so you unconsciously solidified all those equalitarianism beta ideals and re-affirmed them with a vengeance.
It got to a point where you hate people who are natural alphas because your whole life you have been taught to not compete in something that would hurt you.
When you finally turned 16 and realized Cindy didn't want to go to the ball with you you started to harden inside. But it was your parents that gave you the fuel for your insecurity by trying to invent things about society that weren't there as to protect your wounded lil heart.
Just a theory I have
inb4 mass butt hurt and mass denial
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This is definitely going to be a hot-topic lol
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Wouldn't it be funny if another species somewhere would find us completely disgusting? Mouths on their faces? With hard objects that grow in to chew? fracking gross! I sometimes look at people including myself and think that to something else we would look like nightmare fuel, something completely surreal.
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[quote][b]Posted by:[/b] petitminou [quote][b]Posted by:[/b] FloodPsychologis [quote][b]Posted by:[/b] Viper Skills [quote][b]Posted by:[/b] FloodPsychologis I wish I had the actual study with me but basically the gist was, they showed pictures of different people and participants were told to choose the more attractive ones, and the participants pretty much chose the same people pretty consistently even though these involved different population groups across the world. So this isn't even taking into account personality or anything. Just pictures of people. [/quote] I can't remember the exact study, either, but I know which one you are talking about. I have an associates in Psychology. :)[/quote] Thanks for vouchering for me, I'm not making it up :D[/quote] There was also a study that showed people were more likely to attribute positive personality traits to attractive people(i.e halo effect). [/quote] Yup. I also remember the one where most people attributed negative qualities to black people more-so than any other race.
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[quote][b]Posted by:[/b] FloodPsychologis [quote][b]Posted by:[/b] Viper Skills [quote][b]Posted by:[/b] FloodPsychologis I wish I had the actual study with me but basically the gist was, they showed pictures of different people and participants were told to choose the more attractive ones, and the participants pretty much chose the same people pretty consistently even though these involved different population groups across the world. So this isn't even taking into account personality or anything. Just pictures of people. [/quote] I can't remember the exact study, either, but I know which one you are talking about. I have an associates in Psychology. :)[/quote] Thanks for vouchering for me, I'm not making it up :D[/quote] There was also a study that showed people were more likely to attribute positive personality traits to attractive people(i.e halo effect).
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[quote][b]Posted by:[/b] Destined Fate [quote][b]Posted by:[/b] ABotelho [quote][b]Posted by:[/b] Destined Fate [quote][b]Posted by:[/b] ABotelho Megan Fox is pretty nasty, just sayin'.[/quote] Nice bandwagon hopping. A shame you can't form an opinion for yourself. [/quote] There's a wagon for people who think she's not attractive? I had no idea.[/quote] But you are aware that many people do find her attractive. You're trying to be a contrarian, which is always pathetic. [/quote] Nah man. I find plenty of women who are considered attractive to the mainstream attractive myself. I just don't understand why people like [url=http://blu.stb.s-msn.com/i/3E/6A9C3F16010C3EAEE2B9FDDDAC33A_h316_w628_m5_cKwBlBSIr.jpg]this[/url].
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I'd say no, but attractive people are
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[quote][b]Posted by:[/b] Viper Skills [quote][b]Posted by:[/b] FloodPsychologis I wish I had the actual study with me but basically the gist was, they showed pictures of different people and participants were told to choose the more attractive ones, and the participants pretty much chose the same people pretty consistently even though these involved different population groups across the world. So this isn't even taking into account personality or anything. Just pictures of people. [/quote] I can't remember the exact study, either, but I know which one you are talking about. I have an associates in Psychology. :)[/quote] Thanks for vouchering for me, I'm not making it up :D [Edited on 12.03.2012 7:43 PM PST]
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Read the first line. Stopped.
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[quote][b]Posted by:[/b] FloodPsychologis I wish I had the actual study with me but basically the gist was, they showed pictures of different people and participants were told to choose the more attractive ones, and the participants pretty much chose the same people pretty consistently even though these involved different population groups across the world. So this isn't even taking into account personality or anything. Just pictures of people. [/quote] I can't remember the exact study, either, but I know which one you are talking about. I have an associates in Psychology. :)
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OP makes a point or two.
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[quote][b]Posted by:[/b] ABotelho [quote][b]Posted by:[/b] Destined Fate [quote][b]Posted by:[/b] ABotelho Megan Fox is pretty nasty, just sayin'.[/quote] Nice bandwagon hopping. A shame you can't form an opinion for yourself. [/quote] There's a wagon for people who think she's not attractive? I had no idea.[/quote] But you are aware that many people do find her attractive. You're trying to be a contrarian, which is always pathetic.
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Raised? eh Treated differently by peers? yes
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[quote][b]Posted by:[/b] Destined Fate [quote][b]Posted by:[/b] ABotelho Megan Fox is pretty nasty, just sayin'.[/quote] Nice bandwagon hopping. A shame you can't form an opinion for yourself. [/quote] There's a wagon for people who think she's not attractive? I had no idea.
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[quote][b]Posted by:[/b] Destined Fate [quote][b]Posted by:[/b] MarlboroMan [quote][b]Posted by:[/b] Destined Fate [quote][b]Posted by:[/b] MarlboroMan [quote][b]Posted by:[/b] Defogner beauty like most things is a opinion. Your thats and the truth that lives inside those thoughts is alot more important than something on the outside someone can judge.[/quote] This, pretty much. [/quote] No. [/quote] I'd say yes. Beauty isn't everything. I don't judge based completely on beauty, and while I do take it into consideration, it's not something that will change my decisions. Hell, I'm not good looking. And what some people consider "beautiful" in some people, I despise. [/quote] Beauty is almost unanimous. Someone like Emma Watson or Mila Kunis will be consolidated beautiful by many people, and it opens a ton of doors. Ugly people have to put a lot of work in to get noticed or get someone to like them. [/quote]not going to bother arguing, but rose petals pls go
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What if I was raised ugly but became a hot young stud later on?
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Makes me happy I'm an attractive fellow. I don't really care what ugly people get told, so I don't think about it.
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You know i read that if our babys came out ugly the new cute would be ugly. I don't know if thats true, i already find babys disturbing looking, but it a good example of how our minds work. Why pay so much attention to instincts of what to like based on facial features our mind finds attractive rather than our own thoughts of who that person is and what they stand for.
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[quote][b]Posted by:[/b] Viper Skills [quote][b]Posted by:[/b] FloodPsychologis [quote][b]Posted by:[/b] WiiLD [quote][b]Posted by:[/b] DarkVader9494 being ugly is an opinion that is completely perspective[/quote] No it isn't! This person right here is a prime example of the OP.[/quote] I remember during my Psychology course one of the things we learned that the idea that "beauty in the eye of the beholder" isn't really true, and certain traits and features are considered more attractive, even across different nations. The only one I can remember is that people with more symmetrical faces are seen as more attractive.[/quote] Exactly. Humans are wired psychologically to find certain facial features attractive and others not so much. While personality plays a part in overall attractiveness and the longevity of a relationship, it doesn't mean one is not physically attractive. When a guy claims that a clearly attractive woman is "ugly" he is usually disagreeing for the sake of disagreeing. It's a bit different for women as they take more into consideration when assessing a man but that's a different topic. People can't really shy away from the reality of physical attraction. But since it is the 21st century a lot of other variables do play a part. Wealth is important but so is personality. It's common knowledge that even a decent looking woman can glide by in life on her looks, though. That's reality. Love it or hate it.[/quote] I wish I had the actual study with me but basically the gist was, they showed pictures of different people and participants were told to choose the more attractive ones, and the participants pretty much chose the same people pretty consistently even though these involved different population groups across the world. So this isn't even taking into account personality or anything. Just pictures of people. [Edited on 12.03.2012 7:37 PM PST]
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[quote][b]Posted by:[/b] ABotelho Megan Fox is pretty nasty, just sayin'.[/quote] Nice bandwagon hopping. A shame you can't form an opinion for yourself.
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Less attractive people are treated differently by everyone, not just their parents. You could say the same about any group however.
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Megan Fox is pretty nasty, just sayin'.
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[quote][b]Posted by:[/b] FloodPsychologis [quote][b]Posted by:[/b] WiiLD [quote][b]Posted by:[/b] DarkVader9494 being ugly is an opinion that is completely perspective[/quote] No it isn't! This person right here is a prime example of the OP.[/quote] I remember during my Psychology course one of the things we learned that the idea that "beauty in the eye of the beholder" isn't really true, and certain traits and features are considered more attractive, even across different nations. The only one I can remember is that people with more symmetrical faces are seen as more attractive.[/quote] Exactly. Humans are wired psychologically to find certain facial features attractive and others not so much. While personality plays a part in overall attractiveness and the longevity of a relationship, it doesn't mean one is not physically attractive. When a guy claims that a clearly attractive woman is "ugly" he is usually disagreeing for the sake of disagreeing. It's a bit different for women as they take more into consideration when assessing a man but that's a different topic. People can't really shy away from the reality of physical attraction. But since it is the 21st century a lot of other variables do play a part. Wealth is important but so is personality. It's common knowledge that even a decent looking woman can glide by in life on her looks, though. That's reality. Love it or hate it.
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[quote][b]Posted by:[/b] Destined Fate Beauty is almost unanimous. Someone like Emma Watson or Mila Kunis will be consolidated beautiful by many people, and it opens a ton of doors. Ugly people have to put a lot of work in to get noticed or get someone to like them. [/quote] But what exactly is "ugly"? It's based around opinions. What some people consider beautiful, others may consider ugly. Hollywood has scarred the true meaning of "beauty".
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[quote][b]Posted by:[/b] WiiLD [quote][b]Posted by:[/b] DarkVader9494 being ugly is an opinion that is completely perspective[/quote] No it isn't! This person right here is a prime example of the OP.[/quote] I remember during my Psychology course one of the things we learned that the idea that "beauty in the eye of the beholder" isn't really true, and certain traits and features are considered more attractive, even across different nations. The only one I can remember is that people with more symmetrical faces are seen as more attractive.
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[quote][b]Posted by:[/b] MarlboroMan [quote][b]Posted by:[/b] Destined Fate [quote][b]Posted by:[/b] MarlboroMan [quote][b]Posted by:[/b] Defogner beauty like most things is a opinion. Your thats and the truth that lives inside those thoughts is alot more important than something on the outside someone can judge.[/quote] This, pretty much. [/quote] No. [/quote] I'd say yes. Beauty isn't everything. I don't judge based completely on beauty, and while I do take it into consideration, it's not something that will change my decisions. Hell, I'm not good looking. And what some people consider "beautiful" in some people, I despise. [/quote] Beauty is almost unanimous. Someone like Emma Watson or Mila Kunis will be consolidated beautiful by many people, and it opens a ton of doors. Ugly people have to put a lot of work in to get noticed or get someone to like them.
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[quote][b]Posted by:[/b] WiiLD [quote][b]Posted by:[/b] DarkVader9494 being ugly is an opinion that is completely perspective[/quote] No it isn't! This person right here is a prime example of the OP.[/quote]lolno
