Could you have sex with someone without having emotions for them? I don't think I could. I feel as if sex is an emotional thing and should be shared with someone you care about but that's just me. What about you?
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I feel how you feel
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Yeah, I mean I've done it before
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I saw this thread and thought I'd test it on multiple people, I got friends from around the world to help, here's what happened. M= Me/friend G= Girl who we casually asked to -blam!- [b][u]Test 1: Sydney [/u][/b][spoiler]M: Want to have sex? G: Wha? What?! M: Have sex in a local hotel G: *slaps* M: *is slapped* G: *Furiously Walks Away*[/spoiler] [b][u]Test 2: London[/u][/b] [spoiler]M: Want to have sex? G: No *walks away*[/spoiler] [b][u]Test 3: New York[/u][/b] [spoiler]M: Want to have sex? G: What? M: Want to have sex? G: You dirty man I'm going to -blam!-ing kill all of you *beats up* M: *Is beaten up and blamed for assault[/spoiler] [b][u]Test 4: Las Vegas[/u][/b] [spoiler]M: Want to have sex? G: $30 an hour [/spoiler] [b][u]Test 5: Dubai[/u][/b] [spoiler]M: What to have sex? G: - M: ? G- M: Can you take that mask off? G: - M: ??? G: *walks away*[/spoiler]
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Laying around after is a relationship with feelings. Taking a dump on her chest during the deed is casual.
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No, for the same reasons.
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Yup. In my own opinion it's possible for some, but not everyone.
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No. For starters I am married and I could never cheat. Even if I was not married I always feel the need to do what is right so no.
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Never again
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I can, I don't care about other's feelings
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If I wasn't so rough in bed I could. But what I do can't be considered casual.
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Today you can
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[quote]bro[/quote]
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I don't know my left hand very well. We don't have good chemistry, it wouldn't work
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I wish I could just have casual sex with someone. Anyone. Plz.
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I'd have sex with anybody at this point. Then cry about it later in the corner.
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I have in the past. But eventually found it to be fun, but a bit.... hollow. Sure, when the sex was great, it was great sex. But then I discovered that I also enjoy intimacy, discovery, learning about the person, and so on. Just a casual, no-strings, you don't need to know my real name do you, sex was just physical and was missing all of the other aspects of mutual intimacy that can make great sex into amazingly great sex. It sure was fun while it lasted, but I don't find myself missing it. Especially when I discovered just how rewarding each of those other aspects are when you can find a partner who is willing and eager to share those additional aspects of themselves with you.
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Gayyyy... Do you know how many times I've had random sex with people... And I caught nothing... Nike...
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All you have to feel is a boner
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Yep. I could and have done it before.
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Queer
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I've done that before. Without emotions. Just casual sex
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I'm in the same boat as you. These days, sex is glamorized and treated like a childish game. I've gotten casual head and that has even had me feeling guilty and upset with myself because I didn't have feelings for any of the women. My ex and I had unreal sex, she was always bragging to her friends about it. But we had such a deep emotional bond and connection that it was impossible to have anything but amazing sex. I know it's not ideal in today's society, but wait until you have someone you connect with on every level, not just physical. It'll be amazing.
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Shit happens.
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Uh ya. Why the hell not???