Yea unfortunately, that's kinda what VoG has become. I'll always hold on to my memories of my first run through the Vault during the first week it was released. No youtube videos were up yet, no one was talking about how to beat it, and you weren't judged by your level because it was all still so new at that point. My advice to you is hunt a group of people that you really like, organize them, and play the new raid within the first few days of it's release. I bet it'll change your definition of fun for this game (heck maybe even for games in general). Then you can slowly watch as the next raid turns in to a checkpoint and cheese fest where everyone is convinced their method is the best.